The gas tank on my car clicked down to the desperate place and I was trying to pull in and fill up before my dad, sitting in the passenger's seat, realized that there was far less than the quarter-tank he requires at all times. Even of my car.
He saw me pause at the intersection, noted that I was checking out the prices at the stations on each side of the street. I pulled into the closer station out of convenience just as my dad waved in the direction of the other one.
"That one's $3.09, this one here is $3.16," he said in that fatherly way that has guided my car care since I was sixteen years old.
"But that one's a BP!" my mom piped in from the back seat. "Forget it!"
I was already in the bay at the more expensive station, glad to steer clear of three lanes of congested traffic, even if it meant paying seven more cents a gallon. As I stood at the pump, though, I thought about how it hadn't even occurred to me to avoid BP when I was making my fuel purchase. Even after watching weeks of coverage of the company's oil rig explosion and resulting oil gush that some are calling one of the biggest ecological disasters our country has ever seen.
The oil spill disaster and the attempts to stop it have confounded me. I haven't been sure how to help. I sent money to Haiti, have sent toys to Afghanistan, have bought books for inner city kids in this country. But while millions of gallons of oil stain our ocean and beaches, I haven't been sure what to do other than shake my head.
By the time the tank was full, I was feeling even more irritated at the ridiculousness of the spill and inept attempts to stop it. I felt angry about paying more for gas when I live in a city that usually tops the list cross-country surveys of price per gallon. I felt ill-equipped to do anything significant.
My very-political parents were still ranting about the spill when I got back in the car. Then there was silence, punctuated only by a very fatherly, "91 cents."
My dad was acknowledging how much more I paid for the gas out of convenience or traffic or protest or whatever.
"AND WORTH IT!" My mother tagged on.
It wasn't much, less than a dollar to say that it's not OK for a company to operate in the manner it is. And there are clearly much bigger acts of activism and pissed-offedness I can participate in far beyond the pump. But yesterday, my dollars didn't go to BP, and I'm good with that.
Are you boycotting BP in some small or significant way?
p.s. Have you seen the site If It Was My Home? It shows a map of the oil disaster that gets personal when you type in your own city and state to see how far the spill would stretch if it was on your home turf. It's startling, to say the least.
[photo credit: Joe Raedle/Getty Images News]
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