I am so lucky and thankful I have a job where I'm allowed to blog about the good, the bad, and the confusing about my dating and social life. And I definitely read all the comments-and take a lot of the incisive, constructive ones to heart. (for example, you all were instrumental in me re-vamping my online profile)
I'm also thankful that none of the men I've dated have known about my blog. It's allowed me to be free, to talk about what's going on with them, to seek out opinions and then to cut them loose. In fact, only one time did a guy I date know about the blog, and he'd read along, even after we stopped seeing each other. Occasionally, he would e-mail me if I mentioned him (obviously, I gave him a pseudonym!), providing his take on the issue I'd discussed.
And it was stifling! I found myself barely blogging about anything, because I didn't want him to know what was going on with my life. Now, I'm not sure what I would do if I were in a serious relationship-I feel like I'd have to tell my significant other about the blog-but I wonder, what do those of you who blog do? Does your significant other know about it? Has he ever recommended you take things down? Does HE have a blog of his own?
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