Getting a Divorce? 5 Ways to Ensure It's Not a Financial Disaster

And as one reader Commented; Divorce courts are very Gender Bias Against Men. He could not have been more Accurate. You will be receiving A Vasectomy without you even noticing it. But OMG you will know it when its over. Most Judges Suck up to women so they can continue to get re-elected year after year. Have one Judge be fair to a man, and it will be his last year on the Bench. A lot of women commit Adultery, guess what, the courts do not care, in fact most women will not Hesitate to sleep with their lawyer or Judge. If you suspect that, Just shoot yourself in the head because you have no chance of getting a fair shake, much less winning. Yes, it Sucks BAD.

My Advise to All, and I have had way too Much Experience at it, Do everything, and I mean everything to Avoid having two Attorneys. Remember, Attorney's are not your friends, will take your money and very seldom return calls, explain things in a timely fashion and will actually contribute to your case dragging on so as to charge you more money. while you two Idiots are busy Hating each other, you are spending what little money you have left on your two lousy Attorneys. Try and split all your possessions before you even go see an attorney, Including your house if possible. that way after all your stuff is split to your satisfaction, guess what, not much left to argue about. time to go see an attorney and file for disillusion, a great word to describe most marriages. Do not make attorneys rich. All courts are set up so there is no DO IT YOURSELF Divorce court. its a terrible thing to go through.

Forget the divorce....do it the old-fashioned way.....with a gun!!!!! L0L!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I may live to see the day when men are treated EQUALLY in divorce court, but it seems highly unlikely in the gynocentric c--- ry we live in

Newt Gingrrich just commented recently on our family courts.....how does he describe them?
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‘Extreme Anti-Male Bias’

Women demand equal pay at work, but they demand to pay zero child support and no custody for the menz (you can see your kids a few days a week, maybe-we all know the courts will enforce payment of child support, but they will never enforce visitation for the father).

Family courts generally allow fit loving fathers only a few days a month with their children. This is not only harmful to children since it’s so important level of involvement by both parents in their lives, but it’s also a terrible civil rights violation when the government dictates how much time a father or mother can spend with his or her children. What are your thoughts on family court reform?

When men are treated unfairly in Family Court (denied their civil rights), the gender warriors are not to be found (unless, of course, they are busy suggesting that men dont deserve civil rights with respect to their children in the first place).

Divorce is a great time to make up a false accusation against your spouse (the family courts dont require proof and their anti-male bias will make them believe you no matter how eggregious and unproven your accusation is).

The beautiful thing about divorce court is they NEVER punish a FALSE accusation no matter how obvious of a lie it is (women get to lie with impunity in divorce and family court and you can be sure they will be rewarded for their deception)

Men are a---- that deserve everything they get especially after they use you and get the best years of your life than they lies and cheat and thinks its ok, put your emotions/feelings aside its not about that person anymore or how you used to feel its about protecting yourself and any children involved and focusing on rebuilding your life. Y'all NOT friends anymore because friends don't hurt friends it's just someone that you use to sleep with and now its over time to move on. Make sure you protect yourself in the beginning no matter the cost then to have to REGRET it later HIRE A LAWYER a shark.

You have to interview a good lawyer that will work in your interests...you are not here to become friends...
If you have been served papers you are already on the defensive...the law is in the plaintif's corner and you had better be prepared to play hard ball....especially men. Get over the hurt and get on the offensive side of the divorce asap. You have to fight for everthing you get or she will take it all....Usually a older, many battles in the courtroom, attorney is you best bet. Let your spouse go with the younger untested lawyer.
You are not friends anymore, just someone who you used to love. Raid the joint accounts at the first sign of infidelity, pay your bills but protect yourself too. They have already made up their mind when the hammer falls. You are usually reeling from the hurt but you have to get up and go asap.

There are two things that every man needs before getting married, a prenup and a vascetomy.

Hire an attorney that specilizes in divorce,that knows all and I mean all the laws pertaining to the divorce in your state,you won't lose and she walks away with what she brought into the marriage,NOTHING LOL LOL Ahhhhhhhhhh those were the days.

i love to argue... to the death.....