you can put gossip to rest by silence

I live in a too close for comfort complex I however because of certain situations have become
more focused on my home rather than be life of the party
my unit is at the far end however across from me in the other units facing one another so basically one never really has privacy around here
It's funny because when i have friends visit they all say the same comment" wow it's so quiet here"
ya not!
it's like " the hills do have eye 0_0
it's amazing the things that i have heard been said about me
and even more far out when the ones saying them have never even had a conversation with me to know
that i am the last person that should be judged
i won't repeat the lies that are said because i would be giving them more energy

My point is that when you have the center stage on rumors, gossip and lies
the best thing to do is to keep silent and not comment on non sense
better yet even use that as fuel to be a better person

between this year and last i have learned from my mistakes
i blame no one for going through what i have over come, it takes choices made on my behalf that
put me in messed up situations all because i wanted to be a good friend, a kind neighbor, a good sister
however if i wouldn't have fell then i wouldn't know how wonderful it is to be standing
that much stronger

if someone feels the need to gossip about me or you it's because we have something that they are in need of or lack
"happiness, beauty, strength, joy, love, confidence,
someone that love themselves has no negative things to say about others

So remember that if ever you come across this smile for your haters kill them with kindness what can they say " they're too nice!