5 Signs that You Shouldn't Move in Together

You make a special effort to clean the house before he comes over. Are you planning to make a special effort every day of your life? Are you cleaning the house for your benefit or because you don't think he would be pleased by the way your house looks in its normal state? While you might be able to pull it off a couple of times a week, pretending to be someone you're not is a lot harder on a day to day basis.

You're more yourself with the clerk at the gas station then you are with your significant other.Though you might think that you'll get more comfortable with him as time goes on, the fact is that you probably shouldn't be sharing a bathroom with someone you can't even fart in front of. (Not that you would.)

You're trapped in a tug-of-war. Do you feel like your kids and your significant other are constantly in combat mode as they try to get your attention? Maybe they all need more time to get used to each other before they're all under the same roof. If you make this move too fast, you'll lose the trust of you're kids and end up feeling as if you're being torn apart instead of feeling like you're bringing a family together.

Two goals moving in opposite directions won't necessarily meet in the middle. You want to be a foster parent and live on a self-sufficient farm. He can't wait for the kids to grow up so he can travel the country checking out all the major cities. Someone's going to have to put their goals to the side. Which one of you will it be?

Your body is sending all the wrong signals. I remember driving to a boyfriend's house with a knot in my stomach. I thought back about a previous failed relationship that gave me the same feeling every time I crossed the bridge on my way home to a man I no longer wanted to be with. My mind was trying to convince me that I was doing the right thing, but my body just wasn't buying it!


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