The Truth About "Love" and "Being in Love" Cont.

Before I was given opportunity to play my character into his play, I was sent another play to star in. The best part about the role was that upon meeting this new man in my life, we actually had "new love" or "falling in love". Recognizing the connection and chemistry. Realizing that we both have very much in common. Not yet knowing that there were things about him that just did not match well with me. I had no complaints. Both of us filled with utter gratitude for this new relationship. Thinking that we both found the perfect mate.

For me, perfect did not consist of not finding a flaw in our chemistry, but finding it, talking about it and meeting in the middle. Not skipping a beat of being utterly "in love". Still excited about the new relationship and full of gratitude for it. Believing that once the issue has been mentioned, you both are so in love (still wanting to please and impress the other with your skill to love them) that you both make a minor adjustment. It should not feel like work, because you both find the utmost pleasure in making the other happy. That is a perfect relationship.

I thought I had found someone in whom I was attracted to right away to his mind, his hobbies, his goals, his desires in life, his willingness to give my children and I a try, the excitement he had with me and I with him, his spiritual life, and even physically attraction. For me, the rest could be sorted out by meeting in the middle. Also, willing to make my own adjustments first, if so needed be. Taking the step towards the medium. Then putting forth what he could do to make things a little better as well for the sake of staying in love. Giving him opportunity to take the step to meet me at the medium. Also giving him room to do the same concerning me. At least I tried my hardest. Next--->