What is your idea of Romance?

With Valentines Day quickly approaching, I've been thinking about what romance means to people.
I maybe slightly cynical due to my past relationship with my ex-husband, but I don't need hearts and flowers on one day of the year. I would be happy if the guy remembered to put the toilet seat down and left a post-it saying "We need Milk, Love you".
Now, would I like it if someone brought me flowers occasionally, sure. Do I expect it, no. I have found the simple things on a day to day basis are more important then making a big deal out of my relationship once a year.
Am I the only one who thinks like this? Is it wrong to not care about Valentines Day?