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  • A School in New Zealand Has Done Away with Recess – and It’s Working

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    By Ryan D'Agostino

    Last week, Esquire published a story I wrote called "The Drugging of the American Boy." The process of reporting and writing the story was, in many ways, completely depressing. As an editor at a men's magazine -- and more to the point, as a former boy -- what I discovered was enraging.

    To an astonishing degree, boys are being diagnosed with ADHD reflexively, absent any meaningful evaluation and, as a result, a lot of them are being put on powerful medications that can seriously mess with their health and development, both physical and mental. The problem of unreliable ADHD diagnoses and overmedication has been acknowledged before, but I came away believing that few people understand just how pervasive the problem is.

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    Few people understand that it's a crisis.

    One true high point of the experience was encountering Howard Glasser, founder of the Center for the Difficult Child in Tucson, Ariz. Glasser created a

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  • Male-Dominated Societies Surprisingly More Relaxed – Study Says

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    By Ned Hepburn

    Not to come across like a Cathy cartoon or a middling 1980s stand-up comic, but men can be pretty terrible. For centuries, we've killed and pillaged and farted and blamed it on the dog and developed the nuclear bomb. Plus, have you ever seen an apartment just inhabited by dudes? Messy as all hell. In short: We are in need of women.

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    But not so fast. The University of California, Davis released a study. And, oh, what a study it is. In societies where men outnumber women, it says, there is less violenceand crime. The exact language is:

    Rates of rape, sexual assault and homicide are actually lower in societies with more men than women, the study found. And, evolutionary theories predicting that when males outnumber females, males will compete vigorously for the limited number of mates don't bear out.

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    Men are, without question, the major

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  • Twitter Users More Likely to Cheat, New Study Says

    Twitter sexBy Ben Collins

    Twitter users are more likely to cheat on you and participate in other activities detrimental to a healthy relationship, like setting the TV on fire while you're watching it and then immediately leaving the house*, according to a new survey from Mizzou.

    It's only one doctoral thesis, but it's a pretty good sample size - 581 committed Tweeters (both to a partner and to aTwitter) at an average age of 29.

    "Twitter use leads to greater amounts of Twitter-related conflict," the study says, "which in turn leads to (real-life) infidelity, breakup and divorce."

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    Of course, there's some causation/correlation stuff to work through here. Does more time on Twitter generally mean more time on the computer, therefore less time spent doing activities together, for example? The study seems to think that's part of it.

    Go outside with your wife and, hey, you might like her better. Here is your diploma, doctor! Now can you look at

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  • 7 Style Lessons to Learn from Humphrey Bogart

    "I don't mind a parasite," Humphrey Bogart quipped in Casablanca. "I object to a cut-rate one." You get the sense, throughout his career in the movies, that he might say the same thing about suits. Among the most beloved film stars of all time, Bogart remains one of the most legendarily well-dressed, too, his style on screen and off as iconic as anything else about him. This week Warner Bros is putting out a deluxe Blu-ray box set called The Best of Bogart, a collection that includes four of his best-known films and, naturally, boasts a picture of Bogie on the cover looking as sharp as ever in his classic white tux. To celebrate the occasion we thought we'd take a look back through Bogart's career in film and fashion to see what he can teach today's modern man about pulling off that timeless look.

    By Calum Marsh

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  • What the Heck is Oil Pulling and Should You Be Doing It?

    Should you be doing oil pulling?By Andrew D. Luecke

    The Daily Beast reports that oil pulling, a 3,000-year-old Ayurvedic practice, is the latest grooming trend to get the blogosphere in a tizzy. Practitioners claim that the simple process can whiten teeth, destroy halitosis, and even improve heart health. But why, suddenly, is this ancient technique on the tip of everyone's tongue? Yep, you guessed it: Gwyneth Paltrow just admitted to being an oil puller. And what Gwyneth does, the rest shall follow.

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    Basically, to "oil pull," one swishes oil around the mouth, teeth, and gums for 20 minutes, in a procedure that supposedly pulls toxins out of the mouth and boosts overall health. Most practitioners use coconut oil (like GWYNETH), because it's delicious, but sesame or olive oil, and even the clarified butter known as ghee, all work.

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    Though these oils are known to have antibacterial properties, The Daily Beast notes that experts like

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  • Is it Crass to Ask for Cash as a Baby Gift?

    Cash as a baby giftBy A.J. Jacobs

    Or is it basically prostitution? A.J. Jacobs decides, in his latest column.

    THIS WEEK'S QUESTION

    "Some close friends announced they are having a baby. This is great news, except they also announced they don't want gifts and would prefer cash instead! What's the protocol here? Am I obligated to give them money for having a baby, and if so, how much? They're financially stable, so it's not that they're in dire need of money." -Rachel, Ohio

    Rachel, your friends can rest assured that they have made a perfectly reasonable request.

    Either that, or they should just put on zebra-skin bustiers and red pumps and go spend their days working a corner in the Tenderloin in San Francisco, because they are dirty, dirty hookers.

    Let's start with the latter opinion, since it's a lot more fun.

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    1. Your friends are "tacky," "rude," and showing "bad taste."

    Janice Isaac puts it this

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  • Intelligent People Are More Likely to Trust, Study Says

    And they're healthier for it, too. By Ned Hepburn

    We all have a family member or friend that is, perhaps, of the tinfoil hat-wearing sect-the kind of dude that thinks that "they" are after "our guns," or perhaps "the government" is simultaneously "communist, fascist and socialist."

    Now we know why this might all make sense: It turns out that there might be a basic correlation between trust and basic intelligence.


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    Researchers at Oxford University analyzed data from America's GSS Survey (or General Social Survey), a census that has been analyzing America's population since 1978. The researchers concluded, among other findings, that "Intelligence is shown to be linked with trusting others, even after taking into account factors like marital status, education and income.

    "This finding supports what other researchers have argued, namely that being a good judge of character is a distinct part of human intelligence which evolved through natural

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  • You Might Be Missing the Point of Normcore

    One of these is not like the other.

    By Andrew D. Luecke

    More than a week after breaking on The Cut, people everywhere are still talking about normcore. There's been an enormous discussion about what normcore is and what it isn't, with most commentators missing the point. Though Esquire is not going to advocate that you start dressing normcore, we only think it's fair to clear up confusion, explain the style's intricacies, and let the readers decide for themselves.

    Perhaps due to a naming kerfuffle in the original piece that conflated a cultural phenomena with what's really a fashion trend, many assume that normcore is simply throwing on whatever Seinfeld jeans and turtleneck are around and rolling into Le Bain to kill it. Do that and ensure an embarrassing public bitch slap from the doorman.

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    Normcore is a fashion trend, pure and simple, and like most fashion trends it's a riposte to the styles that came before it. In this case, normcore is flipping the bird to hipsters,

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  • Just Say No to the Monocle

    Photo: EsquireBy Max Berlinger, Esquire — When it comes to "New York Times" trend pieces, there's two schools of thought: They're either hopelessly behind the curve or the newspaper of record is just making shit up. The latest declaration to come down from the Gray Lady — that the monocle is gathering steam as the new eyepiece of choice amongst in-the-know young folk — falls firmly in the latter category.

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    The monocle? Christ.

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    While writer Allen Salkin sure does try to rustle up a few facts and figures to support his claim — sales are up, that a single aspiring rap musician wears one, and that a trend forecaster places it firmly in some pseudo-movement called "the new gents" (ugh) — he ultimately throws his hands up at the whole matter before coming to the conclusion that "Monocles are hardly everywhere." Uh, O.K. So why the 580-word love letter about it?

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    Regardless, here's our

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  • 5 Things You Must Know About Being a Father (Featuring Hank Azaria)

    Helpful advice from the comedy legend and creator of the new web series, Fatherhood.

    By Chris Wright

    Long before he became a father, Hank Azaria was badgering his friends with questions about fatherhood. Not that he loved kids, or even particularly liked being around them. He was just obsessed with what it was like to have them. "I was driving everybody crazy," he says. "They'd be like, 'What's wrong with you?'"


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    He started filming his interrogations, with friends like Mike Myers, Bryan Cranston, and Kevin Bacon, with an eye toward making a documentary. But then, midway through, Azaria-best known for voicing Chief Wiggum, Moe, Apu, and other Simpsons characters-got some news. His girlfriend (now wife) announced she was pregnant. "So it went from 'Should I have kids?' to 'Now what do I do?'" he says.

    The result-besides Azaria's son, Hal-is the new web series, Fatherhood. It's a great show, though maybe not for the reasons Azaria, had hoped. The main thing we learn is that celebrities are terrible at giving meaningful

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