heartsIn my quest to find one of the ones who is to be the one I have corresponded with a multitude of men. I have found an underlying problem that seems to be worrying both sexes. The complaint I keep finding on both sides of the spectrum of men and women is that they feel many on dating sites are just looking for sex or a meal ticket. This complaint has come from both men and women and not just women.
In a recent conversation, a man asked me what I was truly looking for. He stated that so many women he encountered wanted purely sexual relationships and he wanted something serious and lasting. He mentioned that women he had been meeting either wanted a casual encounter or a fine dining experience but it left him a bit cold to find that few he met wanted something of substance, something meaningful.
What poured out of my mouth was an explanation that I didn't even realize I had until I spoke it out loud.
"Sex is a Band-Aid for those who don't have actual love in their lives."
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