by Gena Kaufman
Kyle Ericksen Hearts pumping, temperatures rising, and sweat glistening: Sex and working out seem to have a lot in common. But does a session in the sack really equal a session in the gym?
Don't skip your spinning class or your man-pleasing afternoon run just yet.
According to a study in the New England Journal of Medicine, the average practice of having sex lasts about six minutes and burns only 21 calories. For a fun and seasonal visualization of that, check out our slideshow of what 100 calories' worth of your favorite Halloween candy looks like. Then divide the already tiny portion by five. Um, yum?
Obviously most of us aren't having sex for the sole purpose of burning off our afternoon snack, but it would have been a nice bonus. On the other hand, incentive to make your time in bed last longer and be a little more energetic and athletic is probably a great idea in more ways than just calorie burning.
Do you ever feel like you get a good workout from sex?
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Blech, this basically backs up the supposed Well, not your boyfriend specifically. But probably most men. Yay?
You know how people say "Behind every great man is a great woman" and it's like, ugh, barf? Unfortunately if we reversed it, it might have to be "Behind every great woman is a sad, jealous, man-baby." A new study shows that men tend to have lower self-esteem and bruised egos when their female partners excel. So, that's encouraging.
In a series of experiments conducted among 32 undergraduate couples, when men were told their partner had scored in the top 12 percent of all students on a test, the men tended to score lower on an Implicit Association Test for self-esteem. Note that the guys didn't say they felt any worse after hearing of their partner's success, but the Implicit Associate Test measures attitudes and feelings people may not want to report through word associations. Women didn't suffer the same self-esteem dip when their guy succeeded. Come on, dudes. Don't make us feel guilty about being
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Yup, Josh and Fergie have welcomed their first child today, confirms People. It's a boy for the couple, and they gave him a pretty interesting name: Axl Jack Duhamel.
And it looks like Josh is already turning to Twitter for parenting advice, tweeting: "Curious how your pets reacted when you brought home your first newborn child. Any advice?"
So cute! Congrats to the couple. What do you guys think of the name?
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Seriously, do we even care what goes on in the mind of a cheater? Sigh. I guess I do, because I keep clicking on links to stories about their preferred restaurants or what cities the most of them live in. And today, I learned about their favorite beers. Classy U.K. site Illicit Encounters surveyed its members to find out their preferred choice on tap.
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4. San Miguel
Obviously, if your guy is a big fan of one of these beers, you should definitely panic. Or, alternatively, you could just remember that these are generally pretty popular beers that are commonly sold at Everybar in Everycity, USA (though I've never actually had a San Miguel, have you?), so of course they are probably popular among non-cheaters and cheaters alike.
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Penis earrings with chain detail, $15; Petite penis ring, $12; Penis charm pendant with chain, $20 (Sold out!) Like the saying goes, wear your heart on your sleeve and penises on your accessories.
No, never heard that one? Of course not, but what else would you expect from Ke$ha? Tastefully elegant pearls and simple gold chains? Honk shoo. Her new jewelry line, Ke$ha Rose by Charles Albert, has arrived, and the hilariously named "Grow a Pear" line features well...golden anatomy, you guys. Seriously, check out of a few more of the selections.
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There are other parts of the line that are less unusual, featuring skulls, arrowheads, shark teeth, skulls and roses, and Ke$ha herself looks completely gorgeous modeling the line. And, hey, if you wore this stuff to a bachelorette party, it might be considered classy next to the regular adult-themed accessories.
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Have a nail-art party
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Find a new exercise routine and test it with your girls. YouTube the moves you don't know, then have your friends check you to make sure
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I'm exaggerating, but not that much. The article, entitled "Why Men Need Women," examined what makes some super-rich men, like Bill Gates, extremely philanthropic while others are basically swimming in their own money like Scrooge McDuck. And as you may have guessed from the title, the proposed answer is female presence in these men's lives.
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A new study says that men and women in long-distance relationships are more likely to share meaningful thoughts and feelings and have a greater sense of intimacy than couples who live together geographically. The couples who lived apart had fewer interactions daily, but they revealed more about themselves in the interactions.
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