by John Orvted, Glamour
A couple weeks ago, I told you guys about my failed attempt to seduce a friend of an ex, and it made me reflect on the rules of attraction when there's a third party involved. Here are the guidelines I came up with for pursuing the friend of an ex...
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1. Question the friendship and its value
Cold as ice, I know. But you gotta do it. Look at their friendship. Look at your friendship with the ex. Give these relationships real valuations. And then read A Midsummer Night's Dream. Twice. I'm not saying your ex's friend has been waiting to pounce on you since the breakup, but hey, it's a possibility. I'm not suggesting you cut ties or even judge those relationships in the negative. Just take a look at them.
2. Sh*t or get off the pot
If you're going to go through with it, there's no point in going halfway, or hedging. "We'll try it for a month, and if she hasn't forgiven us by then, we'll break it off."