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By Lisa Birnbach, Brides
We asked The Official Preppy Handbook's Lisa Birnbach to field your bridal dilemmas. Listen up, ladies. Her tips will help you keep your sanity-and your friendships-intact.
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Is it okay for my nine-year-old daughter to be my maid of honor? -Courtney W. of Kansas City, Kannsas, via email
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Absolutely! It's your day-do it your way. But keep in mind that even the most perfectly behaved nine-year-old may have trouble standing still throughout the service. Keep her engaged by mentioning her, or having the officiant mention her, during the ceremony; consider giving her a special trinket or bauble during the ring exchange-and make sure to find someone else to hire a stripper for your bachelorette party!
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