by NoGamesLove Dating Coach Laurel House
Did you really think a made-on-TV love would last this long? Is "The Bachelor/ette" real anyway? How can you fall in love surrounded by cameras and within a period of a couple of months?
Let me answer those questions for you:
*I really thought that Trista and Ryan's marriage would last.
*"The Bachelor/ette" is real. It's just that some people go on the show with the wrong intentions (like fame or fun). But the majority of the guys and women on the show truly are looking for love.
*After a few days you don't notice the cameras anymore. Because your entire focus is love while you are shooting the show- you're not thinking about work, friends, family, running errands, watching TV, or ANYthing else; yes you truly can fall in love. You are on-purpose. But if you want to make it beyond the initial rush of chemistry and dig deeper into the core, creating a solid foundation for true love to endure, it's the effort that you put into theRead More »from "The Bachelorette" Trista’s Secret to Lasting Love