All orgasms aren't created equal. While some involve life-changing, earthquake-inducing vibrations, others provide only a tiny and forgettable blip of excitement. But, no woman should settle for an orgasm that's less than, well, orgasmic. Ahead, six strategies to take your climax to an out-of-this-world level.Refinery29
Be A Little Selfish
"Having a good orgasm is directly related to the art of receiving - a difficult concept for many women," says sex and relationship therapist Kimberly Sharky, LMFT, CST. "Whether it's directly accepting pleasure or just allowing yourself to not be a giver for a second, the goal is to make your pleasure just as important as your partner's."
Sharky recommends blindfolding yourself during sex. "If you take away your sense of sight, it gives you permission to pay more attention to what's going on inside your body," she says. And when something happens that you like, speak up. This doesn't necessarily mean handing your partner anRead More »from How to Have a Better Orgasm Tonight!