Blog Posts by georgiagirl

  • A USER POSTS: How in the WORLD to Survive a Breakup???

    Anybody open to suggestions on what someone can do if they've been in a relationship for over a year and now they have broken up? How to make the break up process a little less painless???

  • A USER POSTS:What Should I Do?Forgive and Forget, or Move On?

    Ok. I have been with this guy for a year and almost 4 months. We practically spent all our time together and I thought everything was great. He has been with me through my divorce and some stuff that went on there, when I was admitted into the hospital he was there for me the whole 3 days I was in here. We are together all except for when he works or when I work. The other day, I had noticed some changes in him dealing with his "cell phone". I know alot of people don't agree with this but, we have both always grabbed each others phones and looked through them never any problems. Well all of a sudden he got to where he was passwording his phone out and hiding it from me whenever he was with me. One day he got out of the car and left it in there beside me and I opened it and saw he had texted a girl to come and "watch a movie" one night with him at one in the morning. I of course, was at work. He has apologized and said he was only trying to help her because she found out her boyfriend

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  • A User Asks: Ladies and Men, Need your help here!!!!

    Ok, here's my problem. I have been dating this guy for a year and 3 months. We don't really get into any "big" or "unnecessary" arguments except for two and one of which is weighing on me greatly and I need help dealing with it, or someone to give me some ideas on How to deal with it... I work nights, 12 hour shifts, and on those nights that he's not with me because I'm at work, he stays with his sister. He stays up Most of the night because he says, "he can't sleep". He says many different things, her place is hot. Sometimes her boyfriends brother will stay so he ends up on the floor when he does and he says its too uncomfortable and wakes up off and on and texts me saying he can't sleep. The other thing he says is, people are in and out all hours of the night over there, which I know is true and he says that wakes him up. Ok, so I understand all this. And maybe I'm just over exaggerating over nothing but.... as soon as I get off work in the mornings to spend some time with him, 9

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  • A User Posts: MH just wants to give up....

    Have any of you felt this way?
    Do things really get any better?
    Do people really get what they deserve, "Karma"?
    When will I find peace in my life.
    When will my ex leave me be and move on with his new wife and family and stay the hell out of mine?

    I am at a loss and just want to call it quits.

  • A User Posts: Positive Ideas from friends, anyone got any?

    Ok, as some of you who know me, know I've been through alot in the past couple of years with my ex. Now a new problem presents itself to me. I have been with a guy for a year now and things have been going pretty good. Well, the other night we had an argument about something silly and it brought up some other stuff. He has been with me through rough waters of my divorce case and we even had to seperate for a little while till everything was final. We made it through that and some other stuff. Now, a year later, we are still together nothing has changed but now he is about to back away from my life because of the pressure that my ex constantly gives us. My ex does not want me to be happy. Doesn't want me to have our children, doesn't want me to have a man in my life and now he's about to take it all away. Or at least that is what he's trying for. The guy I am with is now reconsidering all of this because the ex won't stop. I can understand his frustrations but I do not feel this is fair

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  • Apparently, going back to court.

    This will make the 11th time, yes yall read it right, the ELEVENTH time I will be taken back to court by my ex! Can someone scream, "Rediculous"????

    Prayers needed and very much appreciated....

  • Life can be so unbearable...

    Does anyone ever feel like this sometimes? Like you could hide under a rock, pack up and move to another country without telling anyone where you are going, or just flat out disappear?
    This is how I feel today..... ;(

  • Anger, does anyone ever deal with this? And what can I do about it?

    I am not really sure where to start with this but I will just say that I feel like I have an anger issue/problem. I can act so crazy sometimes about things that are so stupid and simple and things that would normally not make other people mad or crazy, it gets to me. I can't really give examples but I can say this, I know that I can be a Witch sometimes and I don't like being that way. Life is wayyyyy to short for me to be feeling this way the majority of the time and I was wondering if there is anybody else out there who deals with anger who can give me some ideas of things that REALLY WORK! I don't want things you heard works, or you think might work, I need to know things that DO work.... Can someone please help me? I really don't like being like this, I have always been a fairly cool and sweet person and people use to tell me this all the time but seems like in the past few years as I get older, the worse I get.

    I will say this, because some info might help.... I am 35. I have 3

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  • A user asks: How did you meet?

    I want to hear people's stories on "how you and the one you love, met".... I will start with mine first:)

    The first time I saw him, he was at work, working (( Naturally,lol )). Anyway, I was ordering something to eat and he was in the back in his section. I just happened to look his way while waiting on my order when I noticed him checking me out. It was like he was in a trance and it was so funny to me because I could almost read what he was thinking, lol. I had to turn my head and walk to the window because I started smiling. When I walked back over to where I could see him, he was still looking at me. I smiled at him and he smiled back.
    *** He told me this after we met, that when I left that day he went to the window to see what kind of car I got into. He said he wanted to see so that if he ever saw me again, he would approach me.***
    I didn't go back for a while, I am not even really sure why, and months had passed. One night while I was at work, I got a text message from this

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  • What Happened ???

    I sure do miss reading people's "Chatters" on Shine. Now days all I see are things about "weight loss" and these things about "Nike Heels"???? What the heck is that all about ? I sure would like to see more people have some discussions on here. I like reading and commenting. I try to do some myself but don't really get a whole lot of responses.
    Where's everybody at ??


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