The Do's and Don’ts of Seduction

Arden Leigh knows how to seduce. As a former dominatrix and the founder of Sirens, a women’s seduction coaching company, Arden has gathered her best tricks of the trade into her book “The New Rules of Attraction” to teach women how they can become the ultimate pickup artist.

“A pickup artist is anyone who goes after what they want in life,” she says. “Originally that meant sexual relationships, but I think these days, it’s expanded to mean friendships, business relationships and lifestyle in general.”

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“It’s all about giving women a set of tools to use so when they do meet someone, they have confidence,” she says. “In a way, it’s like learning to drive.”

Arden offered three seduction techniques:

1. Define your personal brand. “Understand that your identity is yours to shape,” she says. “It’s up to you to give yourself permission to live your life as who you are, passionately."

2. Don’t be afraid to make the first move. “Go out there, practice, and learn what works.”

3. Market yourself. “What’s going to keep a guy coming back to you is not just the way you look, but the value you add to his life.”

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To find out what pick-up tactics are sure to backfire and hear about how you can get a consultation with Arden, check out this episode of Daily Shot.