The down-and-dirty guide to dating: Jerkiest guy moments

Most of us ladies like to joke around about what jerks guys can be, but sometimes a man can outdo even our lowest expectations.These legendary stories of crappy boy behavior are usually reserved for evenings commiserating over cocktails or ice cream (or both). So, what a better topic for the ladies of Frangela to dish about in their dating guide.

First, let's hear what the awesome duo -- Frances Callier and Angela V. Shelton -- have to say:



OK, so those are pretty terrible. But we surveyed the editors here at Shine, and discovered a few doozies of our own. There's the guy who called one of our ladies by another girl's name...in a fight! And then there's the old standby of the man who borrowed money and never paid it back. And, of course, there are the ones who cheat. But one dude not only cheated; he admitted to being in an open relationship with another woman cross-country after dating for four months. Ugly.


Now, we open it up to you ladies of Shine. What's the jerkiest thing a guy has ever done to you? And don't just tell us that he cheated, because -- while that's certainly awful -- tell us why his cheating was the worst or the worst. And believe us, as we read these comments, we'll be digging in to the Haagen Dazs.