The 5 Sexiest Things He Likes About You
By Eduardo Ramos
Women are delicious creatures by nature, and I find so much of what you all do sexy. While there are many different definitions of "sexy," one woman took the cake by striking several different chords on my scale. You might find some of this useful, so I'll share a few of her (and other) behaviors that I, and the average hombre, find deliciously appealing.
1. Listen to what I say.
I was planning a small birthday party at my apartment a couple of years back. The day before the bash I was cleaning up the backyard and my shorty came by to see me. We were talking, and I expressed that I needed a couple of bamboo mats to lay over the dirt in my NYC backyard. The next morning as I'm stocking the refrigerator my buzzer rings. There she stood looking beautiful as always, with six bamboo mats slung over shoulder. I was shocked, elated, and couldn't believe she'd remembered what I'd said the day before. I wanted her for lunch immediately.
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2. Be thoughtful.
Later that night as I'm working the grill I started to run low on the snacks. Shecomes over to check up on me and notices that the food is running low, although people were still looking to eat. She offers to run to the bodega. I tell her not to worry, but she ignores me. Twenty minutes later she returns to the party with more food to cook, chips, salsa, candy, and cake. Her consideration saved the evening--the party lit up as people continued to grub and get down.
3. Surprise me.
I hadn't had her for lunch or dinner, but by now I couldn't wait to get a bite. As people start to leave, we began cleaning up. The moment the last person left she started unbuttoning my pants; this sweet, kind-hearted girl who helped make my birthday so wonderful stood with me naked in my kitchen surrounded by dirty dishes behind us. Her spontaneous attitude (and actions) rocked my world. I alwayslove it when a woman blows my mind with sudden cariños, especially if they're in español.
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And these are a few qualities you probably already know but that are worth repeating…
4. Exude confidence.
There are few things that are as wonderful as having conversation and spending down time naked. One thing I love about Latina women is how bold and strong y'all are in every aspect of your life. When you walk in a room, you own it. We, as guys, think you are amazing, but sometimes you girls don't believe us. Your comfort in your own skin will make us drool; it's so hot. We don't care about the makeup either‑chances are you look better without it.
5. Maintain your independence.
I don't have a typical work schedule, and my time commitments can range from yogi flexible to militantly rigid. To keep my sanity, my business ventures profitable, and still work on the arts, sometimes I cancel plans (it is not intentional, and I will make it up to you) or change course at the last minute. While you may not own your business, I would hope that you understand because, like many Latin ladies, you yourself are: hardworking, driven, have your own life, and your own opinions. There's nothing like a woman who gives as much pasión to her work and creative life as she does to me. In other words: do your own thing for you, not anyone else. All of these things are very sexy. Our time together should be an escape from our wild lives of hustle, not clingy convenience or because it's "safe."
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