20 Ways to Seduce Him

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By Yolanda Shoshana, Courtesan Couch, genConnect.com

The art of seduction has been used since the beginning of time to woo and win someone's heart. While there are big, extravagant ways you can seduce your lover, there are also simple and easy tricks that you can follow on a daily basis that will convince your partner that you are the sexiest person on the planet. A seductress can take everyday mundane activities from boring to oh la la! Here are 20 ways that you can seduce the one that your heart desires ...


1. Make an aphrodisiac feast. Food is sexy and sensual. Aphrodisiacs are thought of as foods that arouse and get someone in the mood. Plan a meal of aphrodisiac delights to get your lover in the mood.

2. Use a sexy language. French is known as the language of love. Learn a few sentences to add to your repertoire so that you can whisper naughty things in a sexy tongue.

3. Kiss. Everyone remembers a good kiss. Get in there deep, wet, and soft, and you will have him or her oozing in your arms.

4. The tie. One of my classes is teaching women how to tie a man's tie. Men love it and think it is so sexy. Plus, it is a delicious way to make eye contact. Top it off with a kiss! Surprise him one morning with tying a knot, then send him on his way. You will be on his mind all day.

5. Write a love letter. Writing love letters just may be the key to winning someone's heart, so bring back this art form and pen how much you love your partner.

6. Surprise. Grab some sexy lace undergarments, spray with your favorite scent, and put this in his bag or briefcase.

7. Smile. Nothing is sexier than a smile. Have a special smile that you show off to your beau whenever you are in the mood. That smile will be just between the two of you, which makes the gesture even more tantalizing.

8. Plan a secret getaway. Tell your lover to just pack a bag and then whisk him or her away for a weekend. A secluded bed and breakfast is always a good idea.

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9. Get a new scent. Smell is very important. It is one of the traits that attract people to each other. Get a new scent, something with notes that you know your lover will adore.

10. Send flowers. Flowers may seem tired, but they never go out of style, especially when they are not expected.

11. Listen. When I coach people, I am always saying that the sexiest thing they can do is listen. When you listen, you pick up valuable information about the other person, such as their desires, wants, and needs, which is priceless in the art of seduction.

12. Watch a sexy movie. I suggest "The Thomas Crown Affair" starring Renee Russo and Pierce Brosnan and "Original Sin" starring Angelina Jolie and Antonio Banderas.

13. Surround yourselves with romance. Act like you are going nowhere fancy and then take your special someone to a romantic place, such as a restaurant with live piano music or a lounge with plush couches. Explore your options.

14. Read sonnets. William Shakespeare wrote beautiful poetry called sonnets that are short and sexy. On a rainy night, bust out your book of sonnets and read them out loud to your partner.

15. Dance. The couple that dances together stays together. It puts you in sync, and it gets your bodies moving together. Do the tango if you dare.

16. Make a mixed CD. Put together songs that you would love to dedicate to your partner. When he listens to it, he will think of you.

17. Three little words. Simply walk up and whisper in your lover's ear, "I love you."

18. Just do it. There is always something that your partner wants you to do, but you haven't gotten around to it. It could be to fix something or go somewhere. Why not do it? It will make him so happy and make his heart go pitter pat.

19. Sexting. Sending a racy text in the middle of the day is something that can really make someone's heart flutter. Let him know about all the things you want to do to him later in the day ... Note: This tip is recommended when both parties are over the age of 18.

20. Go on a retreat. Going on a retreat with your lover can be really beneficial. You get away together, learn together, and just simply enjoy each other in new and interesting ways.

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