3 Ways to Get Your Man to Be More like Ryan Gosling

... because every woman deserves her own leading man.A video was recently released basically proving that Ryan Gosling was, in fact, born this way. The clip depicts Ryan dancing with his sister at a talent show and smirking at the camera. It is almost as if he was destined to be "that guy" - you know, the one women want to be with and men want to be.

Stealing the hearts of women everywhere, uttering swoon-inducing one-liners and saving lives on his off days ... it is safe to say that there are plenty of women in the world who wish their significant other could take a few lessons from Mr. Gosling himself. Here are a few ways to get the ball rolling. Read More: 15 Stars Share Their Healthy Tips For Looking Hot

1. Allow him to be himself. One thing women admire about Ryan is that he does not seem to care about people think of him. It is not about 12 pack abs, a stylish wardrobe or even a signature smirk. Gosling is a guy who knows who he is and owns it. There is an inner confidence that cannot quite be taught, but once a man knows he can let his guard down around you, he will do it more often.

2. Emphasize the importance of romance. Most women first fell under Mr. Gosling's spell while watching The Notebook. Since then, it has been difficult to distinguish between his onscreen persona with his real life personality. It genuinely seems like he treats women like gold all the time, would never take his significant other for granted and is not afraid to express his emotions. Read More: 4 Things You Should Never Say On A First Date

Most men are not so smooth when it comes to romance and might not understand how important it is for a woman to feel special, wanted and cared for. Sometimes women feel like they should not have to explain all this to a man and that he should just know what to do automatically. Help him out. Tell him what makes your heart go pitter patter. Chances are, if he is paying attention you will only have to tell him once.

3. Let him be your superhero. Breaking up street fights and saving a woman from getting run over, just another Tuesday in the life of Ryan Gosling. Not only is he confident and romantic, but now he is a hero. No matter how independent a woman is, there is something very sexy about a man who can take of her no matter what happens.

The best way to get your man to be your own personal superhero is not to go jumping out infront of speeding cars or instigating bar fights. It could be something as simple as allowing him to pull your chair out, hold your hand and guide you through a crowd or to jump in and defend you whenever duty calls. For a man to have your back completely, you have got to let him. Sure, you will not always need saving or a hero, but it is nice to know he is always there when you need him. Read More: 5 Little Ways To Get Him To Commit

Written by We Love Dates for YourTango.com.

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