5 Steps to Fulfilling Your Man's Fantasies for V-Day
By Kelly Rouba, GalTime.com
Valentine's Day is fast approaching and chances are you're still searching for that perfect gift. While it should be no surprise that all your man really wants is YOU, why not show him just how much he still turns you on by fulfilling some of his innermost fantasies?
"This Valentine's Day, give your man the ultimate gift of pleasure by treating him to sexy surprises that he may be afraid to ask for," says Dr. Ava Cadell, relationship expert and founder of www.LoveologyUniversity.com. "If you're not sure where to start, remember there is one thing you can give any man that is sure to please him: Variety! So ditch the traditional dinner and a movie this year and make your Valentine's night one to remember by fulfilling his untold fantasies."
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Love Coach and Sexpert Nikki Leigh often encourages women to consider fulfilling their man's innermost fantasies and offers this advice for Valentine's Day.
5 Ways to Fulfill His Fantasies
1) Send several sexy and suggestive texts to your man; they don't need to be graphic, just seductive and suggestive.
2) When you get home, take a moment to whisper something to your man that will remind him of your texts from earlier in the day.
3) Make the first move with your man. You've made verbal and written moves earlier, now move in for more! You can start with a hand on his chest and kissing his neck, or move your mouth to his earlobe and suck on it.
4) If you're feeling adventurous, give your man an envelope with a kiss on the back with bright lipstick. Inside, place a gift certificate for one wish to be redeemed that evening.
5) Last but certainly not least, completely surrender to your man. Don't hold back! (And if it feels good, tell him!)
Cadell also offers a few seductive suggestions to help get your night off to a steamy start. "Similar to women, men like to be pampered. Only, their idea of being catered to doesn't necessarily involve manicures and pedicures," she says.
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The Way to a Man's Heart...
As the saying goes, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. "If dinner is on your mind and making love on an empty stomach in not your idea of a happy Valentine's night, may I suggest naked sushi? That's right, you get to eat sushi off your lover's body!" advises Cadell.
She continues, "For dessert, choose a ripe juicy soft fruit, such as mango, peach, or papaya, and rub it all over your man's (body and) then lick and eat it off. This is a feast for his eyes and fruit is good for you too."
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After that, you can move on to the real dessert. "Guys love it when you dress up in character, but many are too shy to admit it," says dating columnist Tiffiny Carlson. "Whether you dress up as a schoolgirl wearing thigh-high socks and put your hair in pigtails or you put on some flowy, exposing dress that reminds him of his favorite show Spartacus, (dressing up) would make him happier than any tie or tin of cookies."
In her blog www.lovecoachjourney.com, Leigh highlights some interesting findings from research conducted on male sexual fantasies. "Researchers Bruce J. Ellis and Donald Symons found that men are twice as likely to have sexual fantasies and to become sexually aroused by them than women," she wrote.
Keeping an Open Mind
No matter what your man's fantasy entails, remember to keep an open mind if he decides to share it with you. "If you choose to share details about your fantasies, it is very important that you never make fun of each other's fantasies. It's also important to remember that these are likely to be things your partner will never do in real life, but it can be a great way to expand your love life. Be open and share your fantasies with each other in a positive way and you could open up new possibilities in your relationship," Leigh cautions.
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