5 Verbal Communication Mistakes You Don't Want To Make
By Laura Yarborough, BounceBack.com Editorial Staff
It's not so surprising that since we live in a tech-savvy universe compiled of emails, social networking, instant messaging and texting that our non-verbal communication seems to say a whole lot more than our verbal communication. And because of that, people nowadays have great difficulty talking face to face and so many relationships fail because of verbalmiscommunication.
Why continue to make the same mistakes? It's time to overcome your fear of not being able to communicate properly and it's time to speak up. The next time you're in the middle of a conversation, avoid these typical mistakes and you'll notice the growth in communication and strength of your relationships:
1. Telling the Never-Ending Story.
Have you ever dated someone that never knew when to stop talking and just seemed to babble on and on, without allowing you to speak? Babbling is a sign of focusing too much on yourself and it shows that you have no true interest in what the other person is saying. Therefore, not allowing the other person to speak can make the conversation go entirely wrong and eventually bring out the worst in people.
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2. Talking About Others.
This world is just way too small to be going around and talking about everyone. You just never know who knows who. So, why mess things up by putting your foot in your mouth?
3. Asking a Million Questions.
Yes, it is good to get to know everything about a person, but that doesn't mean you have to overwhelm people with so much at one time. The best way to find out all you want to know about a person usually takes time and patience - something that can't be solved overnight.
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4. Not Saying What You Feel.
People often hold in too much and don't take the time out to express their feelings until it's too late. We sometimes wonder why our mates withhold so much from us. Instead of messing up a good thing, make it your business to speak the truth at all times. For example, if you're angry, it's okay to say you're angry, but just think of a way to express your feelings without being so aggressive. The good news is that you are letting people know what's on your mind, but also allowing them time to address the issue.
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5. Being Too Aggressive.
Sometimes people just need to slow down. Most find it easy to talk about their life story, when others just aren't comfortable with releasing so much of their personal business... and that's okay. We all need time to find our comfort zone, so no matter how much people tend to be forceful with conversation, just think carefully about your response and let the conversation flow naturally.
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We've all made at least one of these common mistakes - some more often than others - but the good news is that we're all human, and mistakes in life are bound to happen. So, next time you interact with someone, try putting these tips into action and you'll be on your way to a strong, successful relationship!
What other verbal communication mistakes have you witnessed or made yourself?
Laura Yarborough is an editor and up-and-coming author who loves to inspire. She can usually be found writing about love, relationships, fashion, spirituality and interior design.
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