6 Signs He Has One Foot Out the Door

By Ariane Mardner, Glamour magazine


One minute he's all over you like he can't get enough, telling you you're the best thing that ever happened to him, and then poof, he starts acting all weird-like. What's the deal? Unfortunately, it may be that he's losing interest in the relationship. Here are six signs to help you figure out what's going on inside his head.


1. He goes M.I.A.
When once he was checking in with you daily, now he's suddenly "too busy" to call or text back. Of course, we all know it takes less than thirty seconds to send a text and a minute to call and say hi. So, unless, he's really in the doghouse with work or lost his phone, there's no real good excuse for his going ghost on you.


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2. He stops paying attention.
This can be emotional or physical, or both (ugh!). If he never was the affectionate type, then maybe it's not a big deal that he doesn't hold your hand, but be on the lookout for any radical shifts in behavior that may signal his change of heart. And guys get a bad rap for not remembering stuff, but I don't think that's a fair assessment-or an excuse. If he is committed to you and the relationship, he'll care about whether your tennis elbow is still hurting or if your call with your boss went well.


3. He picks on you.
And not in a cute way. If it seems like all he does is give you a hard time about every little thing from how you wear your hair to how you looked at him when he dropped his fork, then not only is that uncool, but it's likely a defense mechanism. He just might be making you into the bad guy so that he doesn't have to be responsible for wanting out.


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4. He acts withdrawn.
Is it nearly impossible to get him to open up? Are you constantly asking him, "What's wrong?" and "Is everything OK with us?" (I know; I've been there.) I say you might want to trust your gut on this one. If you have to ask, then you probably already know the answer.


5. He'd rather hang out with his guy friends.
Not only is he not as "available" as he used to be, but now it feels like every night is "guys" night. And when you do have dates planned, he cancels last minute with some lame excuse.


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6. He doesn't include you in his talk of the future.
He's planning a trip to Miami for his cousin's wedding in the fall, but he has yet to drop the hint that he wants you to come along. If he favors the pronoun "I" over "we" and doesn't want to commit to anything more than a month in advance, then he's probably not thinking long term.



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