7 Things We've Learned After 9 Years of Marriage

Photo by: Monica Bielanko
Before Marriage
Monica: Don't go to bed angry. KIDDING. You should totally go to bed angry! There are so many times that we're up late arguing about nonsense, feeling like we ... more 
Photo by: Monica Bielanko
Before Marriage
Monica: Don't go to bed angry. KIDDING. You should totally go to bed angry! There are so many times that we're up late arguing about nonsense, feeling like we must hash it all out before bed when the best thing to do is get a good night's sleep. I'll often wake up wondering what in the hell we were so mad about. I wonder how many couples have divorced because some well-meaning Aunt Edna told them not to go to bed angry. Stupid Aunt Edna. Don't listen to her! Serge: I completely agree with my lovely wife on this one.
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Fri, Oct 11, 2013 12:06 PM EDT

Our anniversary is today. Nine years. A lot has happened since we met in a smoky nightclub all those years ago in Salt Lake City. Kids, moves, pets, fights, death, and a lot of life. As a result, we've learned a lot about being married and figured we'd share it with you. A bit of advice for every year we've been married. These are just a couple tips and tricks we've picked up along the way that have kept us married even when we sometimes didn't want to be married anymore. That along with a bunch of photos that tell the story of us… and our weight gains and losses. Click through for 7 things we've learned after 9 years of marriage! -By Monica Bielanko

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