A Cheating Husband Needs Advice

"How do I save our marriage after cheating on my wife online?" asks Sammy, who describes how he cheated on his wife in Emotional Cheating - How Innocent Friendships Cause Problems. "I love my wife and kids so much. I just made the biggest mistake of my life."

He didn't realize he was emotionally cheating and betraying his wife. She found out (as wives always do), and is devastated. She blames herself, and doesn't know how to get past it.

And he doesn't know how to help her.

I offered a few tips in How to Make Things Right After an Internet Affair -- but I'm curious what you think!

I always said that I'd leave my husband the SECOND I found out he cheated, but now...sometimes I think I'd forgive and try to save our marriage, instead of just walking away.

What would you tell Sammy about saving his marriage after cheating?

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen a full-time writer and blogger; she created the "Quips and Tips" blogs: