Always a Booty Call Girl...Never the Girlfriend...!

Ok, say you give into your urges and do the deed when the spirit moves you...say you have sex on the first date...or maybe you hold out a bit but finally succumb to your desires and needs. What are the chances that the guy you've slept with will take you seriously or see you anything more than a booty call...assuming that you are free spirited and usually don't care, there are times where you might meet the guy that makes you laugh, the one that makes you blush, and the one that when he looks into your eyes you just can't help but feel a sense of delight, and a cosmic, unexplainable peace of mind. You feel wanted, you feel sexy, you feel like this is it (if not the forever...at least for a while) I'm the kind of girl who never goes looking for love and relationships but every now and ten the catch of the day sometimes becomes the diet you want to take on. Ok, so you do the deed, and then you do it again, and again, and again...and then what? My advice...is speak up! Be bold, ask him..."So...are you only looking from a booty call's from me? Booty call status only or more than?" If in case your far to shy, or maybe your fear of rejection is like mine...to intense to feature on fear factor! Then make it appear that your not looking for one thing or another. Exude a level of mystery and confidence....and always embrace the importance of honesty. If worst comes to worst and you really like this guy...and he breaks your spirit by replying to your bold question with, "yeah, do you mind?" Then you can still either continue or dismiss him with your pride and reputation still in tack! You asked him if he was only looking from a booty call from you....with that answer you can always flip the script and say, "ok good, so you don't have other booty calls on tap then? No other girls right...I think it's important to know who I'm messing with". Now it appears if you were inquiring about the number of people he might be seeing....take your answer and your broken spirit and progressively walk away if your looking for more than just the quick tapping action. It's not easy...trust me...but your worth more if you want more, but if your satisfied or just really like the sex, then please...by all means...hit that! (over and over and over!) Metaphorically speaking if you have a dead end job but it pays the bills, there's no harm in searching for a new, better, more prestigious job while still employed where you are...and if there is open lines of communication and they know your interviewing and looking for something else...no harm no fowl and it makes life even that much sweeter! (This is not to be applied to being in a relationship and to justify cheating...don't mistake that!) So for now...I shall just be the booty call girl...but I'm interviewing for a relationship of my very own! =0)