Can You Start Over from Scratch with an Ex?
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Dear Em & Lo,
I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago, due to some problems with the relationship and some awful things that were going on in my personal life - it was just too much stress. I still have feelings for my ex, however, and recently we started talking and he wants to get back together. However, I just don't feel ready to jump back in to a full fledged relationship. What I'm wondering is, can we date causally for a while first? I don't want to just jump right back in because I feel like we'll gloss over the whole getting-to-know-you part that we initially missed. We never had a casual dating period where we were seeing each other as well as other people, and though I don't have any other interests on the horizon, I feel like a period where we just take things slowly and understand whether we're truly compatible would be smart. But is it too late for that? Would it be unfair for me to request it? Is this a case where I have to go all or nothing? Help!!!
Sincerely,
Gun-shy
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