Comparing Your Relationship to Another

There are a lot of emotions that goes through your mind when you find that special someone to call your own. At the beginning everything that he/she does is charming or cute and whenever you are around each other, you get butterflies.

So what happens when you have been together for a while…

For me, it's gotten way better. I enjoy every moment I spend with him, I'm grateful to have someone who loves and cares about me so much. I'm grateful to be able to fall in love.

What I cannot understand is how some people can compare relationships, mine is not the same as yours. I have noticed that certain people don't realize that in order to have a good relationship with someone you have to be able to communicate with your significant other. If he/she doesn't know what you want or need, how can you have a relationship? Now I do understand that every couple has their moments of ups and downs and some are really good at hiding their problems. Even if you don't see couples fighting, why would you compare your relationship with another? If you want the happy moments, the gifts and the love, you actually have to out time and effort into your relationship. No one's relationship is perfect and all those things don't just happen…

I overheard someone say today that she didn't want to be with her guy because he didn't gift her like someone else's dude did. WTF?! She clearly and loudly stated that she wanted a guy who would gift her constantly like a friends husband does and she was really good at pretending to be in love with her guy. Her guy recently lost his job, so I understand that he can't spoil her with extravagant gifts and it's not like he is living ofa her. Actually it's the other way around, she is one spoiled girl.

She wants to break up with him after her birthday next weekend. Her guy planned a surprise birthday party for her and I'm sure that he bought her gifts too.

I don't understand some people. You are so full of shit!