Confused

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, recently i've felt like he doesnt appreciate me or anything I do. I spend more time with his family then he does, I always make the plans, I clean and even cook; there's been times where I've laid out his clothes for him. I havent gotten any sort of appreciation back. I dont understand what happened. I feel like I'm giving this relationship 150% and his giving 20%.

The other night I got irritated of my bff (cuz of something totally different) and turned off my phone. this was the first time that I was completely alone. I realized that I dont need the stress, drama or stupid excuses from anyone. somewhere along the way it also hit me that I dont need to be with someone to be happy, I'm happy by myself.

I thought I was losing my mind, the happiness that you get from being with someone is something completely different. But I also believe that a person needs to love themselves before loving someone else.

So I explained everything to my boyfriend. I made sure that he understood that I need our relationship to be on an even playing field. Kinda like you have to give to take...(something like that). I also told him that if our relationship contiues this way, I'm going to cut my losses and start the new year alone.

I also made sure that he understood that I wasnt threatening him, I just let him know of my expectations and if he couldnt follow through then we both go our seperate ways...

Think its going to happen like i want it to...?