Do you suspect your man is GAY and using you as the "girlfriend" to cover up the TRUTH??

Okay, long story, short version..........................I met this wonderful man last September........we hit it off the moment we started chatting over e-mails(online dating service)................we spent alot of time together. We live about 50 plus miles away from each other.........so each minute we spent together was special. We spent almost everyday off from work together. He would cook for me, and just an all around GREAT GUY.

We spent last Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's and Valentine's together. We broke up shortly after Valentine's of this year. We both wanted the same things. W e even looked at houses together(he lived with a room mate).

We would always, text messeag each other, or e-mail, or call each other.............sometimes two or three times a day. We both worked full-time jobs and we spent as much time together as possible.
Plus we still spent time with our friends doing other things. So, as far a I know we had a healthy realtionship.

One day he text message me and basically asked me to marry him.....before I could answer him (at the time he was out of town on a business trip) we split up over a BIG misunderstanding. We slowly tried to work things out and we never really got back on track.

Then last month..........things started to heat up again.........................but I then realized I was fooling myself..................

I didn't see any REAL RED FLAGS about him being GAY......but since we broke up so quickly and without any real reason(s)..................I been left wondering about his dissapearing acts. From the end of February to May....he basically didn't call me, text me, or e-mail me. Just recenltly we started texting each other......but not like we use to...................so

Why the dissapering acts, no phone calls, didn't want to see me, and then just the "booty calls". Yet, I could still sense he cared for me, maybe even love me still................but something was different. Something changed him? Another girl..........no. I know for SURE he wasn't seeing someone else. But I am left wondering if he had a deep secret...........