Drive Him Wild Through Dance

One of the best things I've learned from working in the strip clubs is sensuality and eroticism. Skills that I still use to date. So many times I've been asked for a tips to make an evening at home special though the age old art of erotic lap dancing. Here is a few pointers I use to seduce and arouse men.

The general idea is to get him as turned on as possible without actually having sex. Part of the excitement is the fact that you can touch him anyway you want but he can only look at you. He's yours to tease and you can do anything you want. He doesn't get to respond. He's supposed to stay in the chair and not use his hands. Personally I think it's fun to sit him in a chair and tie his hands to the chair with scarves.

Psyche yourself up and have confidence in yourself. Just remember, you are hot, you are sexy and you turn him on. It's best if you're very secure and confident with your body and with dancing. If not, it would be a little tougher for you and you would probably not relax causing you not to be able to feel erotic and express that naturally. Your eyes and body should tell him "I'm the sexiest thing you'll see tonight". Just know that you have to like what your doing to make a man enjoy it. I have found that it helps to buy new lingerie for the experience, something you are turned on by. After all, your arousal is as important as his. Think creatively about how you'll dress before stripping. For example, one time I was in a full professional business attire and completely surprised a partner by dancing and stripping down to a teddy and garters. Another time I was dressed in formal attire, long dress, hair up, heels, jewelry the whole nine yards and stripped eventually down to nothing.

Select music that you would like to make love to. Sometimes the easiest way to do a dance is to just start dancing, pay attention to where he is looking and at what part of your body and enhance that part of your body. If it's your breast, you could lick them or wet your finger and run it around your nipples, if it's your booty, smack it, put it in his face close enough but not too close. Start with a slow, sensual rhythm for yourself. Then while swaying to the music, begin taking off your clothes. Take your time. The slower, the better. You need to build him up to the climax so to speak. The most erotic things are often little ones, maintain eye contact and keep transmitting that "come-hither" look in your eyes. Dance very seductively in front of him with your body mere inches away, let him smell your fragrance. Touch yourself lightly as though you're going to make love to yourself. Flaunt your breasts just in front of his face, you might gently place his face into your cleavage or gently grazes your breast across his nose and lips. Wiggle your rear end at him or rub it up against him before you straddle his legs and run your body down his, make sure to use every part of your body. Finally, sit down on his lap and grind away, playfully, at his erection. In a sense, masturbating him through his clothes without using you hands. By doing any of the above, trust me, he will get an erection.

Most of all, be creative, be sexy, and have fun using your dance as a way turn on your lover. It might help you to go to some of the strip clubs and watch the dancers.and at the very least be observant to what really gets a mans attention. I suggest to any woman that's still not sure to go to the strip clubs and pay one of the dancers to give you a private lesson.

I hope some of this helps. Give it a try and see how easy it is to do. Really, it's only as "hard" as you make it. *wink