How do you handle a sexless marriage? You decide.
Our inbox is overflowing and we'll never get to all the lonely hearts, so each week, one reader's fate will be left up to the masses. Answer this reader's question in the comments or by filling out this poll after the jump:
Dear Em & Lo,
I have been with my husband for three years and he is the love of my life. He is the absolute picture perfect Husband, Father, Lover and Man. There is nothing to complain about except our sex life. I have a very high sex drive and he has none. It's like gender-role reversal. And it's causing problems in our marriage. I have tried to talk to him and he just gets upset and says things like the only thing I am interested in is sex. I know that I have a very high sex drive and if it were up to me we would have sex at the minimum 2 times a day but that is not what I am asking for. I don't feel like I am asking for too much by wanting to have a sex a few times a week. I don't just want to have sex with him for the pleasure of sex -- I want to because that is the closest you can be to a person and I hunger for the intimacy. We have amazing, mind-blowing sex together and both of us agree on that. In times past he has said that he is overweight and is uncomfortable being naked in front of me and that is why we don't have sex very often. And when we do have sex he does most of the work, that is another reason. It is not for a lack of trying on my part; I try to do the work when we have sex, however he has a hard time climaxing, no matter what the position is, unless he is doing the work. We have experimented with different positions and I have done everything I can. He is 6' 7" and is about 30 pounds overweight but I have also gained weight and it doesn't affect my sex drive. I have never said no to him in the bedroom and I hear it all the time, which is starting to be very hurtful to me. Please help, I need some advice.
Wedded Blues
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