How To Handle A Sick Spouse

If you're like me, you're going to have to deal with a sick spouse at some point in your life. I'm talking down for the count, ill. As I type, that would describe me. I'm exhausted, tired and can barely walk without feeling like I have to sit back down again. Rather than figure Rex can read my mind, I told him exactly what I needed from him.

1. Don't expect a fancy dinner.

2. Please put the kids to bed for me. (Or at the very least direct traffic to the tooth washing/pee/pajama station until they are ready to read with their pathetic mama.

3. Stay on me about going to the doctor if this doesn't go away by Wednesday.

4. Gently remind me to back out of my oh-so-important engagements.

5. Bring me some chocolate, flowers and a big cup of decaf.

That last one? I didn't really ask for that. But it sure would encourage me to put him to bed when I'm finally out of mine. Wink wink.

Keeping the posts short this week. Here's to antibiotics working and fabulous spouses who support us when we're down! And don't forget to ask for what you need. Your husband might not be Dr. McDreamy, but last I checked, that dude is television character. For your very real, loveable husband, just be direct. He'll thank you for it.

Posted by Andrea Frazer

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