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Dear Em & Lo.

I'm a 48-year-old female and I can't seem to achieve an orgasm during oral sex. It all seems too intense. However, I don't have any problems when masturbating. I feel it is like… someone else scratching your feet… it tickles. If I do it myself, it doesn't tickle. Is there anything I can do so that my man can achieve this wonderful thing for me?

- Don't Tickle Me Elmo

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