New Ideas for Things to Do This Weekend

Bobbi Palmer

When I was single I had a love/hate relationship with weekends. I loved having the extra time off work; I hated that I didn't have a man to spend the time with. The truth is, though, that I didn't need a man to have fun or accomplish something meaningful. In many cases, I just needed ME!

I thought I would help you out by giving you a bunch of ideas of things to do this weekend. I have all kinds of thoughts about how to make this, or any other weekend, enjoyable-with or without a man or a friend. (Although I strongly suggest you pick one of these and call a friend to join you this weekend!)

  • Have a chick-date with a new friend.

  • Go on a cheap weekend getaway.

  • Go to a department store makeup section and get a free makeover.

  • Buy a new dress and pair of sandals. (Summer is here!)

  • Get tickets for a play or other live event. Grab a discount if you can by going to www.Goldstar.com.

  • Go to a singles event or just one to meet a new girlfriend. (Google "[your city] singles" or go to Meetup.com.

  • Go to a wine-tasting event - they have those all over now.

  • Wonder around a local organic market and learn about some new foods. (I've recently learned what Ghee is and bought garbanzo flour.)

  • Give your dog a bath, then march her proudly around the dog park. (Great place to meet men!)

  • Sign up for golf lessons.

  • Do phone banking for your favorite cause or politician.

  • Volunteer in your community helping children, saving the planet, rescuing animals, beautifying your city…tons of people need you.

  • Go to the art, science, history…whatever museum.

  • Go to a seminar or lecture, maybe to learn more about yourself or men.

  • Go to the local library and make goo-goo eyes at all the smart men.

  • Call or email the guy who got away.

  • Organize and conduct a car wash to raise money for the local schools. (They need it!)

  • Plant a garden.

  • Get that massage you've been talking about. (These days there are ways to get all kinds; many reasonably priced.)

  • Have a picnic and read a book at the park. (Preferably one that will give you some new dating skills. Hey! How about my eBook.)

  • Learn to paddleboard, bowl, or do some other sport you've been talking about.

  • Organize a Parcheesi or poker party and have everyone bring one guest - male or female; either is fun.

  • Take a bike ride.

  • Get online and don't get off until you connected with 10 men in some way. (wink, email…whatever)

  • Go to the local big book store, find a book and read it there. Make sure you notice the smart men.)

  • Ask a man to help you carry something, give his advice, fix your car…just see what it's like to receive. (Yeah, really…just do it.)

  • Take a class (Salsa, Spanish, wine tasting, floral arranging, tennis…)

  • Go to the beach, mountains or some other scenic area to paint, draw or just observe the beauty alone or with a friend.

  • Try a new restaurant, but make it out of your area, and then go have a drink.

  • Do a good deed. Walk someone's dog, watch someone's child while they do something fun, or shop for your elderly neighbor.

  • Call a friend who's been down in the dumps and ask her what movie she has been wanting to see. Then take her and buy her popcorn.

  • Walk around your neighborhood and talk to those folks you've been seeing every day but not getting to know.

  • Start a gratitude journal by listing all the people and things you are grateful for.

  • Make your own list of fun, meaningful, satisfying things to do!