"Do I Look Fat in This?" is Ruining Your Sex Life

by QuickieChick Laurel House

You try something on as you're getting ready to go out. It feels a little tight. So you look to your guy and ask "Do I look fat in this?"… He tells you that you look beautiful. But you're not convinced. You proceed to complain about your body, asking if he thinks you have gained weight, pointing out your cellulite, charging him of no longer being attracted to you. He continues to reassure that "you look fine."

If you have insecurities about your butt, thighs, stomach, boobs, arms, or ankles DON'T point it out to your guy. Complain about it to your mom, sister, best friend, therapist, or even me on my Facebook wall. Let your guy view you as the gorgeous gem that you truly are. I mean really, do you WANT him to see your cellulite before he sees your smile? He fell in love with you for a reason. Don't taint it. Stop pointing out your flaws and forcing your guy to view you through your eyes.
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Keep it up, continue to reinforce and try to convince him of how hideous your stomach is, how you lack ankle tapering, and the fact that your right boob is smaller than your left, and pretty soon he will see it too and he to will pick you apart as much as you do.

Let him love you the way he does, without your own personal issues tainting his view. He loves YOU! A banging body is just a bonus.

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Laurel (want more? download the FREE QuickieChick Guide: Fit to Flirt e-book)

Laurel House is a lifestyle author, expert, writer, personal trainer and the "QuickieChick." Her "quickies" are all about making the most out of every moment- whether it's a saddlebag-burning "Quickie Workout in Bed," a metabolism-boosting "Bites with Benefits" meal, or how to get a $150 spa-quality skin peel out of a $1 tomato and lemon at-home Refrigerator Facial. Her YouTube videos have received over 6 million views and now you can get even more Quickie Tips in her new book "QuickieChick's Cheat Sheet to Life, Love, Food, Fitness, Fashion and Finance on a Less than Fabulous Budget"(St. Martin's, May 2012).