Never Settle for Less

How many have found themselves stuck in a relationship where it doesn't feel mutual? Many have values that support 'till death do us part' and 'for better or for worse'. But, how long can can one believe in strong values when their spouse or significant other doesn't? Furthermore, both people should be happy and secure in their relationship and most importantly with themselves. It's never too late to re-evaluate your relationship and make integral life changes with or without your partner.

Take a 'step' back and ask yourself:
1) Am I truly happy with myself?
2) Do I make my partner happy?
3) Does my partner make me happy?
4) Do 'we' as a couple have the same goals?

No couple is a is a perfect match, and at times opposites attract as they off-set each others qualities, but when your involved in a relationship, you as a person, should not be the only person going with the flow of things or going out of your way for your partner (one-sided relationship). There definitely should be compromise but no settling or letting them get away with mistreatment or disrespect.

While men and women are different animals we shouldn't believe in stereotypical beliefs, such as, women are verbal and men are sexual; it may very well be reversed for certain couples. Don't let your partner get away without a conversation, especially when something is bothering you or something needs to be discussed. Not discussing something that is bothering you is considered 'settling'. Don't be afraid to tell them how you are feeling or what is on your mind. If they truly care they will listen and changes will be made. If no changes are made move on. Over-time settling builds and then it can turn explosive and hurtful. No one deserves to settle for less.

Love is beautiful. Love isn't about material things, it is about how the person makes you feel when you think about them or when you are with them. It is about trust, caring, and how that person makes you a 'better' person. It's about giving and sharing intimacy. It's about excitement. Giving without expectations. It's also about being by someone's side in a time of need. Telling them everything is going to be okay and you knowing it will be just because they are by your side. If you have never experienced this with your partner, it's okay, you may have settled, but it is never to late to achieve this or move on.

Get out of non-fulfilling relationships that cannot be fixed, go out there and get what you deserve, what makes you happy. Find someone that makes you want to be a better person. But, first and foremost be sure that you are happy with yourself, this is the only way you will be able to make others happy. Everyone deserves to be happy, never ever settle for less, your partner should be able to fulfill all of your needs, wants and desires.