Oral Sex: Let’s Talk About Gagging

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Ladies, can we talk about something super personal? Yes? Great, it's going down…

And I mean going down on him. We've talked a lot about oral sex and it seems like we're always looking for tips to really wow him. Let's not dance around the fact that you have a penis in your mouth. Sometimes those suckers are big, other times not so much. But the point is that it's larger than most items that normally go in your mouth so it can be a strange feeling to get used to.

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A lot of girls I know (myself included) thought things were going just swimmingly during a ----- . The guy was into it, the girl was relaxing and then suddenly BAM! A gag is triggered and the girl awkwardly pulls back and stops and the guy is momentarily confused. Though in all honestly, I think some guys get off knowing they've gagged a girl.

When I read this article on Tres Sugar about Go Deep Oral Sex Mints, I had to shake my head. Apparently, a mint "numbs your mouth" and lets you go "deeper." As if deep throating it was all there was to the whole thing! While I haven't tried Go Deep Oral Sex Mints, a few years ago, a product making similar claims caught my eye. It was a minty gel that you sort of swashed around in your mouth before oral sex that supposedly numbed your gag reflex. It looked and tasted just like toothpaste. Packaging included. I gave it a whirl and it didn't work at all. Actually, the taste was pretty strange and hard to get rid of.

If you're having gagging issues or too full feelings during oral sex or even if you just want to spice things up, I say skip the mints and pastes. Try a flavored lube. I know, I know, it can seem really creepy to buy this sort of thing. But it absolutely made a difference for me. And when you think about it, would you rather taste your own spit or something a bit more flavorful? Here's one that I recently discovered. It's been quite the game changer!

Have you ever tried anything (products or techniques) to cut down on the gag? Do you feel uncomfortable buying sexual products? You shouldn't! And do you shop for sex toys with your guy?

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