Are His Porn-y Emails Cheating?
By Aaron Traister, REDBOOK
DEAR WHYS GUY:
"I don't mind my boyfriend watching porn, I know guys do that. But he gets all kinds of email solicitations from cheating and hook up sites-emails from addresses like, 'married.but.lonely@hotmail.com.' Does this mean that he is possibly cheating and I should ask him about it, or is this just normal "spam" that guys usually get after visiting porn sites? I don't want to freak out on him, but I don't want to be a patsy either. What say you?"
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DEAR REDBOOK READER:
Free porn is about as healthy for your computer as unprotected sex with multiple strangers is for you in real life. If you keep rolling the dice eventually your computer is going to come down with something nasty; before I switched operating systems I crashed three computers thanks to free porn sites. My point is, it's probably just spam (although I never got spam - just viruses) but if it's something you're curious or worried about you should talk to him anyway. Communicating is never a bad thing, and you should always err on the side of communication.
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