A User Posts: Positive Ideas from friends, anyone got any?

Ok, as some of you who know me, know I've been through alot in the past couple of years with my ex. Now a new problem presents itself to me. I have been with a guy for a year now and things have been going pretty good. Well, the other night we had an argument about something silly and it brought up some other stuff. He has been with me through rough waters of my divorce case and we even had to seperate for a little while till everything was final. We made it through that and some other stuff. Now, a year later, we are still together nothing has changed but now he is about to back away from my life because of the pressure that my ex constantly gives us. My ex does not want me to be happy. Doesn't want me to have our children, doesn't want me to have a man in my life and now he's about to take it all away. Or at least that is what he's trying for. The guy I am with is now reconsidering all of this because the ex won't stop. I can understand his frustrations but I do not feel this is fair for me either. I don't know how to handle this and I don't know what to do. We will be going back to court again soon for the 11th time, all on him of course.... And just yesturday, he went up to my boyfriends job and pulled up beside him and started talking to him. Mind you, he doesn't even like this guy, doesn't like me being with this guy or any other guy for that matter. My bf turned around and walked away from him, instead of responding, simply because of all the crap we have had to endure since the beginning of this mess. My ex wasn't being rude or ugly, but how he acted and him just going up to him and saying what he said, sort of seemed like he was being a smartA. I am very much in love with this man, and my ex has already remarried and moved on with his life. Can someone please tell me what can be done about this? I know it is considered harrassment, but what can we do ? And please keep in mind, we are financially both strapped, so its not like we can afford some big expensive anything to get rid of him, but is there something we can do to stop this that anybody knows about or has any suggestions on? I really need help here. He's ruining my life and making my life a living HELL!!!!!!!