Pros and Cons of a Rebound Relationship
Gena Kaufman,Glamour magazine
Yesterday we talked a little about dating after a breakup, and a few commenters wisely stressed the importance of a dating detox. I agree that giving yourself a break can be therapeutic in the healing process, but taking the other approach and rebounding into a new relationship can't be all bad, right? I mean, my girl-crush Katy Perry seems like she's having fun with that hot model guy she's supposedly dating.
Let's consider some of the advantages and disadvantages of the rebound relationship:
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Pro: You aren't sitting at home moping, which is boring. Related: This also means you aren't numbing your pain with an endless supply of French bread pizzas. No breakup weight gain here!
Con: You're avoiding dealing with your sadness, and all that repression might lead to a breakdown of epic proportions later.
Pro:Sex!
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Con: Jumping into a relationship too quickly can end up making you feel worse later when you might realize you barely even like the guy, you were just blinded by the sex and/or not wanting to be alone.
Pro: Suck it ex-boyfriend! Your new guy is hotter and smarter and totally better in bed (or at least that's what you're telling all your mutual friends).
Con: You're possibly just dating a guy who reminds you of your ex. What you really need to be doing is breaking your cycle of making the same mistakes all over again.
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Have you ever been in a rebound relationship? Tell us how it worked out! What were the best and worst parts?
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