Sexual Turn Offs For Women


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Ladies, what are your biggest deal breakers in the bedroom? We have a few and we'd like your thoughts!


Pulling the woman's head to your penis: Men, unless the woman is voluntarily traveling to your southern region to give you oral sex, don't assume that you pulling her head to your penis is going to grant you one. Not too many women are open to oral sex the first time so don't push it.

When a man puts his penis on my face so I can take the hint and give him oral sex I seriously want to slap it away from me. It's rude and I don't care to see his penis right on my face the first time. I don't put my vagina in your face and road block you until you give in so don't do it to me. - Stephanie


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Going in without a condom: Condoms might be uncomfortable but we all know they protect from cooties and pregnancies so please wear one. There are a variety of condoms out there (new ones even come with a vibrating ring!) so there is no excuse- being responsible is sexy! A woman shouldn't have to ask you to put one on. Not only is it an indicator of your ignorance to the risk factors of unprotected sex but it also makes the woman wonder just how many times you've put it inside without a condom.

I was dating this guy and the first night we had sex he tried putting it inside without a condom. It really scared me and turned me off because I laid there wondering how many times has he done this? When I questioned him he replied, "Oh I trust you." Well, I didn't trust him. It really turned me off and even after he put on the condom I was not interested in the sex.- NYGirl

Bad Hygiene: Women always prepare for sex so please do the same. Usually both parties have an idea when sex might go down so plan accordingly. Tarzan is sexy but he needs a trimming! While some women prefer a man to be shaved some can deal with a nicely trimmed bush so prim your penis before you take him out. Remember, first impressions are important and if you're lacking some hygiene down there don't be surprised if she avoids sex for awhile.

Read: 6 Convincing Reasons Why Men Should Shave!


Being Selfish: Sex should be an enjoyable experience for both parties. Ideally, both the woman and man would like to orgasm. When you're immediately barking orders and demanding all these sexual favors that she may not feel comfortable with performing you come off as a selfish dud. Don't drag a woman into a multitude of sexual positions that work for you (like the infamous doggy style). Take turns in pleasing each other.

Fingers in unwanted places: There is no bigger turn off than enjoying some good oral sex and being surprised by a finger shoved in the back door. Most women don't like any action back there regardless if you think your finger is harmless and she could enjoy the double stimulation.

I was once having sex with this guy and while he was giving me oral sex out of no where he sticks his finger in my butt and I'm surprised I didn't hit the ceiling by the way I jumped up. It felt painful and it really killed it for me. What's worse is that not 5 mins passed before he tried it again. Seriously? was my body reaction not good enough for him to get the hint?- Pamela

Grabbing instead of caressing: A woman's body should be admired and caressed especially the first time having sex. Why do we keep reinforcing this first time sex deal? Because most women prefer that you be gentle the first time- we want to see your soft side, we love the idea of you making love to us the very first time. After the first time usually the ice is broken and we both feel more comfortable with each other so roughness and kinkiness can be unleashed if it's desired.

When you're grabbing onto her not only could it be painful and a discomfort during sex but she may feel like a piece of meat. Don't manhandle her the first time, gently touch and enjoy every square inch of her body. Breasts are tender and when you're grabbing on them or even biting them it's painful. While some women enjoy roughness during sex, be gentle the first time.

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Trying to enter back door without permission: Not every woman has her back door open- for some it will forever be a one-way street. While some women might be open to trying anal sex at least once, they want to be prepared for it. Don't try to sneak your penis into her anus. Not only is it painful since she hasn't been stimulated to welcome you, it's also very disrespectful. If you want to try anal sex, ask her don't try to sneak into it.


Being too rough: Not every woman enjoys rough sex especially the first time ( most women have expressed that they prefer romantic sex the first time .) Rough sex can be fun when both parties feel comfortable around each other and the desire for it is expressed. If you don't know, ask first before you start dragging her like a rag doll.

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Spraying her face or body: Guys, what you see some women enjoying in porn is not what the majority of women enjoy in real life. Not every woman wants your body fluid on her face or any part of her body. Be respectful and before you cum ask her if she's okay with it. First time? Don't even bother asking, it's a big NO! It's a disrespectful and the deal breaker to what could've been great sex.

I once was having sex with this guy and right when he was about to cum he pulled out the condom and sprayed my entire face. It was so disgusting and so disrespectful for him to think I could be cool with that. I felt so disgusted.- BlondeGrl

Talking too much: Men, when throughout the entire sex session you keep asking, "you like that?" you will sound like a broken record. Regardless how great it was feeling for her, if your voice kept breaking in every second her close to the big "O" moment will evaporate. Most women don't get why you need constant re-assurance. Pay attention to her body language, it's the greatest indicator if she likes it or not.

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