How to Speak to Your Man's Sun Sign!


Do you get tongue-tied around a cute guy? Does it seem as if your partner isn't listening as actively as you'd like? Or perhaps you simply feel misunderstood?

Mercury, the cosmic minister of communication, is the fastest moving planet in the sky and loves to throw you off-balance with its quick-changing ways. But if you learn how to speak to your man's astrological sign -- which can strongly affect his style of communication -- you can effectively get your message across.

Youthful Aries sometimes childishly blurts out things most adults would agree shouldn't be said. However, these utterances come from an honest place and certainly aren't intended to harm. When communicating with an Aries man, a direct approach is best, rather than tiptoeing around with formalities. He can take the blunt truth.

Taurus responds well to sensory messages. Elaborating about the way things look, feel, taste, and sound will make your message come alive in the Bull's imagination. If your topic is dry, juice it up with sensual adjectives (itchy, sticky, crisp, velvety, sweet, etc.) to capture his attention.

The Gemini man appreciates sharp wit, so try to incorporate humor if you want to hit a home run. The twins are intrigued by the complexities of language, though these guys usually just want the boiled-down version. After all, they live, listen, and talk by the famous Shakespearean dictum that says, "Brevity is the soul of wit."

Cancer reads the emotional tone of a message, often giving the feeling much more credence than the actual words expressed. It's important, then, to center yourself before talking with a Cancer man, being careful to convey the intended tone. Note that e-mail and text are not the best mediums for Cancer, who would rather experience your face -- or at least your voice.

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Leo wants every communication to be entertaining, since the Lion is naturally inclined to make that kind of effort for his own audience. Still, these men can be given to hyperbole and will sometimes exaggerate or minimize details for the best possible dramatic effect.

The Virgo man appreciates precision in speech, so crisp diction, correct grammar, and well-chosen words are sure to impress this detail-oriented sign. Virgo needs to know the true meaning, theme, or point of the conversation, and is often eager to get to the part of the communication that's actionable.

Libra feels comfortable within the guidelines of diplomacy and tact. You don't have to talk to him with the level of protocol reserved for presidents and kings, but just know that manners do indeed matter to him -- it's a matter of respect.

Scorpio wants the unvarnished truth. If he hears messages that seem inconsistent, it's cause for alarm. He's more perceptive than most and can detect lies more accurately than a polygraph machine.

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Sagittarius loves colorful conversations, so you can skip the boring details. This Fire sign would rather the story be exciting than precisely accurate. He also tends to have a short attention span for conversation, so don't be offended if it seems like he'd prefer to be out experiencing life rather than talking about it.

Capricorn wants to know early on the purpose of the conversation. This business-minded sign sometimes comes off as very professional, even in a personal setting. Also, these men can be aloof if the conversation goes on too long, as they're usually quite busy and prefer action to chatter.

Aquarius will gladly talk all around a subject and is adept at an intelligent type of conversational dancing that may -- or may not -- have a point. Creative and broadminded, Aquarius can elevate conversation to the level of an art form. Furthermore, this sign is a good listener and can find a way to connect with people, regardless of how much or little they may have in common.

Pisces men are gifted at communicating in more ethereal realms, which can be rather baffling to anyone with a more practical approach. They can also be quite poetic -- albeit in the way some poetry is difficult to follow, yet still doesn't have to "make sense" to ... make sense.

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