Tips for the Lips

One of the most honoring and sexy ways a man can be pleasured is when a woman adores his penis. I think a mans penis represents about 80% of his ego, so if you want to make your man smile from his soul; you need to completely and thoroughly adore his member. One of the best ways to do this is through fellatio. And I don't mean just lightly licking it, I mean take it in your hand, devour it, love it and own it.

First of all, men know if you like doing this or not just by how you go about it. If you don't like it, he will know because the enthusiasm is not there. Be passionate. Go for the gusto and it will turn him on so incredibly that he will remember it for many hours of masturbation later.

Here are some tried and true tips I've learned for making oral love that I'm sure your partner will enjoy:
1) Grab his shaft hard and suck it hard. Let him tell you if it's too hard. Don't be afraid you will hurt him. Have you ever seen a man wank off? You think he's going to seriously hurt himself. LoL. He yanks that thing and pulls it so hard, you would think he is going to pull it off!

2) Make noises like "mmmmm" or moan when you take it into your mouth. He will feel like he is a yummy lollipop as you slurp his love muscle. He will be thinking to himself, "Oh she just loves it," and this excites him unbelievably. Remember, you are sucking his ego.

3) Drool for his tool. Get it wet. Most men love it sloppy, slurpy and juicy. The saliva heats up with friction and is a real turn on for the man.

4) Stroke his sack, but do this carefully. Personally, I love men who shave down there because the softness of their skin is such a turn on to me. Also, licking is more fun and sucking balls that are shaved is hot!

5) Create a good suction and pop his knob in and out of your mouth. On circumcised men the lip of the helmet is sensitive and some men just go wild when you flip this lip as if you could tip it off his shaft. This is a technique that many don't know about, but it drives men nuts. The part that is most sensitive is the part underneath where the shaft meets the head and causes a valley up the head to the pee hole. Flick this spot in an upward motion with your rigid tongue and cup the rest of the head with your mouth and lips, sucking at the same time. Then plunge him down your throat while tonguing his shaft wildly, creating suction as if it is stuck to the roof of your mouth. Any time you can suck then tongue then suck, you can get incredible results and moans from your man. (They are usually looking up at the heavens by this time)

6) Let him watch as you master his penis (ego). If you are lying on the bed between his legs, or if he is standing looking down, he is intently watching you. Use one hand to stroke his tummy, balls, up and down his legs, thighs, nipples, and hold his shaft with the other hand so you can guide it carefully away from your back teeth. Guys who pull your hand away, sometimes regret it because they don't realize you are keeping his precious head from those sharp grinders in the back of your mouth. If they've pulled your hand away though, it might be an indication that you were squeezing too hard, or that he wants you to take him deeper into your mouth, especially if he is smaller and your hand takes up most of the length of the shaft. Going all the way down is incredibly pleasurable for the man to see his it all disappear down your throat.

7) One technique I employ is to start at the tip and spiral down to the bottom of the shaft. Twist your head and mouth as you go down. Apparently this feels great for the man. Go all the way down. If he is too long for you to do this, go as far as you are comfortable with going. The gag reflex kicks in when you go too far but you can circumvent that reflex with practice by relaxing and opening up your lower throat.

8) Suck his balls. Men don't usually get a lot of attention to their balls because most women think they'll hurt them. But if you gently stroke them and suck them by taking one into your mouth at a time, tonguing it then moving to the other one, you will see how much enjoyment is derived from this attention. Then use your tongue horizontally up the vein of the cock and feel him gasp when you again, take into your mouth.

9) Don't forget to use your tongue a lot. The flicking and wagging of your tongue using good pressure is very pleasurable. Try twirling it around the head one way, than the other way. Again, this will bring gasps and moans.

10) I think it's fun playing with an uncircumcised penis. All that skin is fun to suck on and lightly chew on. Most men who are uncut are extremely sensitive when you expose the goods by pushing the skin all the way down and holding it down to suck him (but be careful here as some can find this painful). You have to ask the man which he prefers. Exposed or unexposed. And leaving the skin up makes it a little difficult to create and maintain a good suction, but it is much easier doing the up and down motion with gliding smoothness. Sometimes I try to leave the skin up and stick my tongue between the outer skin and see how far down I can slide my tongue in before the skin folds back with my motion. Pressure is important too. Squeezing with your lips as you move up and down is VERY important. Consistent pressure evenly squeezing with a hand and lips is usually what sets him off.

11) Another little trick that makes men gasp with pleasure is when I use my teeth ever so gently on the head of the penis. Be sure there is a lot of saliva for gliding your teeth on. I start out by having my teeth clenched together at the tip of the penis. Then as I glide down the cap I slowly open my jaws. My lips are closed around the shaft as my head moves downward. Then I flick my tongue as my teeth give way and cause a suction with it. This sensation seems to bring a new experience to each recipient and usually elicits some comment like. "My God, where did you learn that?"

12) And last but not least, swallowing. I have asked men which they prefer. A woman swallowing or him wanking off on me during the last few seconds before release. Many men grew up watching porn and in all porn, pulling out of the mouth and other orifices is the norm, so the viewer can see the glorious "money shot." As a result, many men associate an awesome orgasm with pulling out and releasing on my breasts, face, tummy or butt as he strokes. It is a turn on to see the fruits of my labor for sure, or feel the warm love juice on my breasts and face. And it's especially nice when the man then goes and gets a warm cloth, and cleans me up after that. That is a return compliment. But most will say they want you to swallow. Of the top 5 questions most asked by guys online, "Do you swallow?" is one of the most asked questions. This is because if you remember in the beginning, my first point was; a man's ego lives in his penis. If you swallow his ambrosia, his ego is given the ultimate compliment.

After he unloads in your mouth, slowly pull away and leave the penis alone now. It is painfully sensitive and can't bare any more attention for a few minutes. A nice warm cloth placed on his shaft and scrotum feel lovely to him as well, while he is resting and recuperating.

You are now equipped with some knowledge of how to pleasure your partner in ways he might not be familiar or expecting. Listen to the noises he makes and maintain eye contact to be acutely aware of what makes him happy. If you want to make him explode with pleasure as opposed to just warming him up, just remember these 5 things: Patience plus passion plus proper pressure plus variety of moves plus swallowing is going to get your man to tell you that you give the best blowjob he's ever had. To me, that's the ultimate compliment.