A USER POSTS:What Should I Do?Forgive and Forget, or Move On?
Ok. I have been with this guy for a year and almost 4 months. We practically spent all our time together and I thought everything was great. He has been with me through my divorce and some stuff that went on there, when I was admitted into the hospital he was there for me the whole 3 days I was in here. We are together all except for when he works or when I work. The other day, I had noticed some changes in him dealing with his "cell phone". I know alot of people don't agree with this but, we have both always grabbed each others phones and looked through them never any problems. Well all of a sudden he got to where he was passwording his phone out and hiding it from me whenever he was with me. One day he got out of the car and left it in there beside me and I opened it and saw he had texted a girl to come and "watch a movie" one night with him at one in the morning. I of course, was at work. He has apologized and said he was only trying to help her because she found out her boyfriend was cheating on her BUT.... Yall know how this could have gone. They could have gone right past that into something else. What else? He would not have been nearly ok if I had invited some dude to come and "hang" out with me.... I really love this guy, have the whole time we've been together. My question is this, should I go with that "excuse" and forgive him and take him back or am I being stupid for even considering taking him back ? I really could use some help on this ....
