When She Just Doesn't Like Going Down
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Dear Em & Lo,
I hate going down on guys. Always have. I gag, I choke, I think it tastes gross. My boyfriend likes receiving oral, of course, and I want to make him happy, but I don't think I should have to force myself to do something I thoroughly don't enjoy just for his pleasure, especially when there are plenty of other things we can do - and do do - to get him (and myself) off. Am I being unreasonable? I wouldn't ask him to do something he really didn't want to do. And I can't help but think, If someone's got to make a sacrifice in this relationship, why can't it be him sacrificing his desire for BJs, since that won't result in him throwing up? (Btw, I enjoy receiving cunnilingus, but it's not a deal breaker - I can take it or leave it. My boyfriend says he enjoys giving it to me, so that only adds tit-for-tat pressure!)
- That Blows
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