Why do people cheat?

I have a question to ask anybody out there who's cheating on their hubby or girlfriend or fiance or wife or husband.

Why do you do it?

Is it because you think you can get away with it?

Is it because doing something you know is morally wrong more thrilling than doing what's right?

Are you not getting enough out of your mate?

Are you going through some midlife crisis that's making you yearn for your lost youth?

Do you ever stop to think about who you're cheating on? How it feels to place trust in someone heart and soul only to have them lie behind your back? How humiliating that is?

And what about the person you're cheating with? Does he or she know the truth? Have you ever stopped to think about how you're using them?

I'm not trying to preach here. I'm not a religious person but I do know the difference between what's right and wrong. But it seems in my view so many are cheating on the ones they love and who entrusted their hearts in to share their lives with that they feel like its a norm in our society. "Hey, everybody lies. And if President Clinton can do it, then so can I."

I'm just trying to understand why if there are any reasons. I hope whoever reads this blog entry can help me. Feel free to respond. And thank you.