Yes, women can ejaculate. Here's how!
Okay, before we tell you how to ejaculate, we have to get a couple things off our chests:
First, yes, women can ejaculate. Don't believe us? Check out our introduction to the Impertinent Question video: Can Women Ejaculate?
And next, no, not all women ejaculate. So if it doesn't happen for you, please don't stress about it or feel like your parts aren't working properly. The last thing we mean to do is set up an unrealistic sexpectation. And gents, please don't make it your "mission" to turn your gal into a geyser. It's okay to give it the ol' college try, but know when to give up. Some women squirt across the bed, others barely trickle, still others find G-spot stimulation so painful or annoying that they never get far enough to find out, and many will never ever ejaculate at all. And that's okay. But seeing as we're always being asked how to make it happen, we thought we'd at least tell you how to try.
So, without further ado, you'll find our top ten tips for nurturing your inner female ejaculator, after the jump.
1. Most women who ejaculate say it happens as a result of direct, firm, prolonged G-spot stimulation. Remember, while all women have a G-spot, not all women enjoy having theirs stimulated. If you're one of those women, we recommend you give up now and try learning a new position or something instead. If you're not, locate your G-spot on the upper, or front wall of your vagina, about two inches in. Curve your finger in a "come hither" gesture, toward the belly button. Click here for more information from us on how to stimulate the female G-spot, or check out our Impertinent Question video: What's Up With the Female G-spot?
2. Go it alone first. There's less pressure and you can take as long as you want without worrying that you're boring anyone. Not that this is boring, of course.
3. Once your partner's involved, they might want to try a toy specifically designed for the G-spot, like the G-Twist or G-Swirl by Fun Factory, sold at GoodVibes. But really, any toy with that "come hither" hook is good--because most G-spots respond well to firm, steady, prolonged stimulation. And not all fingers can provide that.
4. Let it go. You're going to feel like you've got to pee, but don't worry about wetting the bed--if you've gone to the bathroom beforehand, there shouldn't be a problem. But even if there is a little pee, is it really a problem? We're all grownups here.
5. Bear down. Take "letting go" a step further by actually pushing out when you feel the urge to pee, like you're in a pee-off and you're about to take the lead.
Find steps 6-10 here!
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