Look what I just found in Orion's backpack. I have no words.” It was posted by a friend whose 5-year-old son is in kindergarten. For those of you not familiar with the LMFAO song (or the way little kids spell), it says, “My sister is sexy and she knows it.” I laughed out loud — one of those cringe-y, I’ve-so-been-there but I’m-glad-this-is-not-me laughs. And then I liked it. The comment section lit up with smiley face emojis and “you should frame this!” declarations. My friend’s husband (jokingly) added: “The one I found says, ‘I got pashun in my pants and I ayntt afrayed to show it.’” Clearly, they’re laughing about it, which is exactly what my husband and I would do. But there is an underlying issue here that plagues my family as well: The radio is a minefield of inappropriateness and when you like listening to music (or frequent places where music is played, like, I don’t know, Earth), it can be hard toI was perusing Facebook the other day and up popped this photo with the caption “Read More »from What One Mom Found in Her Son’s Backpack. Funny or Not So Much?
- Esquire.com | Team Mom – Mon, Apr 21, 2014 2:56 PM EDT
By Ryan D'Agostino
Last week, Esquire published a story I wrote called "The Drugging of the American Boy." The process of reporting and writing the story was, in many ways, completely depressing. As an editor at a men's magazine -- and more to the point, as a former boy -- what I discovered was enraging.
To an astonishing degree, boys are being diagnosed with ADHD reflexively, absent any meaningful evaluation and, as a result, a lot of them are being put on powerful medications that can seriously mess with their health and development, both physical and mental. The problem of unreliable ADHD diagnoses and overmedication has been acknowledged before, but I came away believing that few people understand just how pervasive the problem is.
RELATED: The Drugging of the American Boy
Few people understand that it's a crisis.
One true high point of the experience was encountering Howard Glasser, founder of the Center for the Difficult Child in Tucson, Ariz. Glasser created a therapeuticRead More »from A School in New Zealand Has Done Away With Recess Rules – and It’s Working
- Erin Zammett Ruddy | Team Mom – Fri, Apr 18, 2014 6:25 PM EDT
It’s Easter week, which means there’s been lots of chocolate-bunny-themed posts popping up in my Facebook feed. I love hearing how friends went on Cadbury egg benders and seeing the cute Easter bonnet shots (and the hilariously creepy Easter bunny shots). But one post made me do a double take: Color-coded egg hunts. As in, each kid gets assigned a certain color egg and is only allowed to collect those pre-designated eggs. At first the OCD-er in me was drawn to the pretty picture with all the order. The buckets match the eggs! I almost hit "like" but then I realized how much I dislike the idea. The post I read touted it as a way to “keep it all fair.” For real? This is so not for me. Here’s why:
For one, this level of organization just adds more work and feels like part of the Pinterest, whatever-you're-doing-now-is-not-good-enough campaign to stress me out. Can’t we just scatter a bunch of eggs in the backyard and let the children loose? You have to tell kids who just sat still(ish)Read More »from Why I Won't Be Following This Easter Egg Hunt Trend
There's nothing better than a bucketful of popcorn and your favorite movie. But before you hit the butter pump, give something new a try. Celebrity chef Alex Guarnaschelli shows us three ways — both sweet and savory — to get creative with everyone's favorite movie snack.
Simple popped corn:
In a 2-3 quart saucepot, combine 1 teaspoon canola oil, 1/4 cup popcorn kernels, and 1/4 teaspoon kosher salt. Shake the pot to coat the kernels with the oil, cover, and place over high heat until you start to hear popping, 2-3 minutes. Keep the lid on, lower the heat, and gently shake the pot back and forth over the heat until the popping stops. Transfer the popcorn immediately to a bowl, leaving any unpopped kernels behind. Makes 4 cups. Season with salt to taste.
WATCH: Lighter Spring Desserts
Dark chocolate and caramel popcorn:Read More »from Popcorn: Three Ways
In a medium saucepan, combine 1 tablespoon unsalted butter with 1 tablespoon sugar, then melt over medium heat until it turns caramel-brown (careful, it will be extremely
- TheBump.com | Team Mom – Thu, Apr 17, 2014 10:58 AM EDT
By: Ivy Jacobson for TheBump.com
Veer/The BumpA new study, just published in the journal Pediatrics by researchers from Boston Medical Center, suggests that you may want to think twice before turning over the remote to your fussy toddler.
More from The Bump: Are time-outs good for toddlers?
The study's lead researcher, Dr. Jenny Radskey, is recommending that parents not put their toddler in front of a TV to soothe any tantrums, because that could garner developmental issues later in life.
"We found that babies and toddlers whose mothers rated them as having self-regulation problems - meaning, problems with calming down, soothing themselves, settling down to sleep, or waiting for food or toys - watched more TV and videos when they were age 2," says Radskey. "Infants with self-regulation problems watched, on average, about nine minutes more media per day than other infants. This may seem small, but screen-time habits are established in these early years."
More television watching could open theRead More »from Watching TV After a Tantrum Isn’t Good for Your Toddler, Study Reveals
12 Questions That Teach Kindness in Your ChildrenWe encourage kindness in our children, above all else. In our home, we value and teach kindness above intelligence, talent, and responsibility.
As parents, we are raising children whose character is built on thoughtful kindness. And it's working: In a day of endless stories of bullying, we are raising children who stand up for the bullied by stepping in. In a day of debates over whether children should be allowed in restaurants, we are raising children whose considerate behavior draws strangers to our table to comment on what a pleasure it was to have us as table-mates.
In a house of three kids under 10 years old, we are working every day to raise siblings who know how to fight fair, know how to love and be loved, and who will be friends as adults. It starts at home, and we work at it every day.
Our approach isn't foolproof. My 7-year-old is far more empathetic than his older brother. It's like empathy is his superpower. He can read emotions near flawlessly when he slows down enoughRead More »from 12 Questions that Teach Kindness in Your Children