How to decode a wedding invitation so you arrive in style

Is it me or is dressing for a wedding getting increasingly complicated? Now that everyone's having much more creative event themes figuring out what to wear to them is like deciphering a secret code. What exactly does "garden festive" or "creative black tie" or — my favorite— "dressy casual" actually look like? We've interpreted some of the most popular invitation instructions for girls and guys so you can arrive in occasion-appropriate style.

There are many things to consider when interpreting an invitation's dress code like location, time of day and time of year. Here are some guidelines to ensure that you stylishly match the occasion.

Black Tie

Girls: Since these are ultraformal weddings often with religious overtones, think long gowns, modest necklines and classic, not trendy, colors. Bring a wrap to cover your arms for the ceremony if your dress doesn't have long sleeves.

Guys: A well-fitted tux paired with classic patent-leather tux shoes. There's no other option here.

Black Tie Optional

Girls: This directive translates into semiformal. Hems can be higher, but keep silhouettes tailored and elegant. A jewel-toned structured sheath is a great option or an
asymmetrical cocktail dress in a bold color.

Guys: If given the choice, most men prefer to go with a suit instead of a tux and that is fine. Just remember "optional" does not mean "casual." A slim well-pressed suit and tie and some dressy loafers get the job done.

Festive/Casual

Girls: Destination weddings often fall into this category. If it's a beach wedding, a light-weight halter dress that will keep you cool along with strappy sandals is appropriate. For an outdoor garden party-type of event, bold prints, bold
jewelry and a fun pair of heels make sense.

Guys: This is probably the category most guys prefer. A light-colored suit with no tie works well as does a pair of khakis and a blazer. Just remember that even if it's hot, you've got to at least arrive with your jacket on!

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